Shahida Arabi
Shahida is the author of Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse and the poetry book She Who Destroys the Light.
How To Forgive Yourself For Something You Shouldn’t Have To Forgive Yourself For: Healing Self-Blame After Abuse And Assault
Survivors of abuse, assault or any other heinous crime are often blamed and shamed for being victims in the first place – and it’s no surprise that they struggle with self-blame in the aftermath.
Stonewalling And The Silent Treatment: When The Narcissist’s Silence Is Deafening
According to researcher Dr. Gottesman, there are “four men of the apocalypse” or four communication styles in a relationship that can predict its inevitable demise. These are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling.
Histrionic Personality Disorder: Drama, Seduction And An Insatiable Desire For Attention
Have you ever met someone who seemed to be highly emotional, theatrical, dramatic, obsessed with their appearance and overly seductive in their interactions with others? Someone who always needed to be the center of attention? You may have encountered someone with Histrionic Personality Disorder.
How To Really Make A Woman Come, According To Science: 5 Facts About The Female Orgasm Everyone Should Know
Female sexuality is often shrouded in mystery. But what does it really take to make a woman come? And how is it different from the way a man achieves orgasm and arousal? Here are five facts about female arousal and orgasm you might not know that can help you to better understand the female psyche during sex.
9 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’ve Been Abused By A Narcissist
Being abused by a narcissist can cause you to do these nine things.
This Is How You Break Up With A Narcissist – For Good
There’s a better life ahead of you. Here are three tips on how to break up with a narcissist – for good.
7 Ways Emotional Vampires Drain Empaths And Highly Sensitive People
Empaths and highly sensitive people might be especially susceptible to being around these types because emotional vampires are drawn to our warmth, our compassion and our bright energy.
For The Girls Who Do Not Fear Wolves
You will ask her to bow and she will climb. You will ask her to crawl and she will rise. You will ask her to die and she will be reborn. You will bury her and she will grow.
50 Powerful Questions That Can Help You Identify The Signs Of Emotional Abuse
Is your partner kinder and more respectful to others in public than they are to you behind closed doors? Do you find that the way your partner treated you in the beginning of the relationship is unrecognizable from the way your partner treats you now?
3 Reasons Why INFJs Are The Favorite Targets Of Narcissists
Anyone can be the target of a narcissistic, toxic person. Yet INFJs, touted to be the rarest Myers-Briggs personality type, tend to be surprisingly overrepresented among victims of narcissists. Here are three major reasons why INFJs tend to fall prey to narcissists – and why narcissists gravitate towards them.
The Narcissistic Conspiracy: Scapegoating, Smear Campaigns And Black Sheep – How Narcissistic Groups Bully Their Chosen Victims
Have you ever been bullied or excluded by a group? Taunted by a narcissistic individual who enlisted the help of others to further undermine you? You may have been the victim of a narcissistic “conspiracy.”
The Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing: How To Spot A Covert Narcissist And The One Thing That Always Gives Them Away
There is one thing that distinguishes a wolf in sheep’s clothing early on from a genuine person. Can you guess what it is?