Shahida Arabi

Graduate of Columbia and Harvard
Bestselling Author
Published Researcher
Shahida Arabi is a graduate of Columbia University and Harvard University. She is a published researcher on narcissism and the bestselling author of Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself, featured as a #1 Amazon Bestseller for 16 consecutive months after its release, and Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse, featured as a #1 Amazon Bestseller in Applied Psychology. Her latest book, The Highly Sensitive Person’s Guide to Dealing with Toxic People, is available in all major bookstores and has been translated into 12 languages.
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Shahida
Arabi
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5 Toxic Things Narcissists Say About Their Exes and What They REALLY Mean
Narcissistic and psychopathic individuals misuse common phrases to gaslight others. They will usually depict their exes in a distorted way to manipulate their new targets and often use their new targets to retraumatize their exes.
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4 Types of People Narcissists Are Repelled By — And How to Become One of Them
There are four types of people most narcissists and psychopaths tend to stay away from. Learn these four types to better protect yourself if you sense you are in the presence of a potentially toxic person.
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11 Key Things High-Value Men Do Differently From Narcissists
Dating a high-value and high-quality man is drastically different from dating a narcissist (and narcissists can be male or female).
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5 Shocking Behaviors People Mistake For Narcissism But Actually Aren’t
1. Selfie-taking on its own. Researchers discovered something interesting about selfie-taking: while it was significantly associated with narcissism scores in men, it was generally not associated with narcissism scores in women contrary to what might be normally assumed.
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Three REAL Reasons Narcissists Break Up With You
It’s time to understand the real reasons why narcissists break up with you.
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Do Narcissists Provoke Jealousy On Purpose? Research Says Yes
It’s been long said that narcissists love creating love triangles and provoking jealousy in their partners – thousands of partners of narcissistic and psychopathic individuals have shared their experiences on this phenomenon.
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Best Narcissism And Gaslighting Movies, TV Shows, And Books That’ll Blow Your Mind
Narcissism goes beyond just self-absorption and vanity: it can escalate into cruelty, vindictive obsession, long-lasting deception, and covert sabotage.
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6 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’re a Complex Trauma Survivor
While PTSD occurs from a single traumatic event, Complex PTSD is caused by a series of repeated, prolonged traumas usually originating in childhood and continuing into adulthood.
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