Sabrina Bendory

Breakups are hard enough, but when your ex keeps coming back but doesn’t seem to want you back it can be crushing. It could be an ex-boyfriend or an ex-situation-whatever, either way it hurts and it messes with your mind.

Getting over a situationship can be brutal… and the pain is often worse than the pain following a long-term relationship. But why? Why does it so hard to let go of something you never truly had?

My friend Ashley came to me in a tizzy one day. She was dating a very confusing man and needed help making sense of it all.

So you were dating a guy… or maybe still in the “talking phase” and he seemed super into you. And you like him too which makes it even better!

We’ve all been there. You’re seeing a guy… a guy you really like.

Let’s talk about how you might unintentionally be pushing guys away and turning them off.

When a man starts to pull away or withdraw, a lot of women reflexively panic and do what they can to bring him back and get the relationship back on track.

The one thing I’ve noticed over the years as a relationship writer is that most women have no idea how they’re coming across to men.

If a man doesn’t want you, you should never have to plead your case and convince him otherwise. Storytime!

A very simple guide explaining how to get over a breakup and all the tips you’ll need to get over a guy.

The no contact rule is the only way when you’re breaking up. Whether you want to get over him or you want to get him back, after a breakup, you must follow the no-contact rule. Storytime!

Let’s go over some landmine phrases you should never say.

A quick guide on making him fall for you. Have you noticed how certain women seem to have all the luck with men? They don’t really seem to do anything, and people are just drawn to them.

I want to finally share the story of how I married my high-school ex-boyfriend after 11 years of me wanting him and him not being interested in me at all!

How to tell if a guy really likes you — and what to do about it. We need to talk about knowing if a guy likes you and what to do about it.

Do you find that you are mostly (or only!) drawn to emotionally unavailable men who can’t give you the commitment you want?

When a man is withdrawing and pulling away, try these tips. When a man starts pulling away or withdrawing or acting cold toward you… it’s hard not to panic. It’s hard not to blame yourself: What did I do?

Does sleeping with him too soon really ruin the relationship? Is it possible to have sex too soon? Will sleeping with a guy too soon make him instantly lose interest and head for the hills?