Sabrina Bendory

Nothing can hinder your future happiness like staying stuck in the past. This goes for every aspect of your life but is especially true of relationships. Happy relationships are ones you can grow in, feel natural in, and be your best self in, and you can’t do any of those things if you’re stuck in…

Here is what to do when he stops chasing you… So the guy you’ve been seeing suddenly isn’t chasing you anymore… he seems less interested… you don’t feel like a priority… and you’re panicking and don’t know what’s going on or how to get it all back on track.  I totally understand the feelings of…

Let’s talk about the art of flirting. Now some people have the upper hand because they are naturally charismatic which easily crosses over to being a skilled flirter (these people are usually Libras, just saying!). For others, it doesn’t come as naturally, but flirting is a skill you can learn. Being a good flirt doesn’t…

Let’s talk about men going hot and cold. Is there anything more unsettling and frustrating? You’re seeing a guy, everything seems to be going great, he seems super into you … and then he’s not. Something suddenly shifts. You try not to worry too much, but you can’t help but wonder what you may have…

Why we become obsessed and how to stop the obsessive loop! Have you ever met someone and become utterly obsessed with them almost instantaneously? Maybe it’s someone you went on a few dates with or someone you had a few encounters with and you just can’t seem to get them out of your head. You…

When you’re dating someone, eventually you’ll have to ask: is this relationship just for now, or is it forever? Marriage is a big deal, it is the ultimate commitment, and not everyone wants to get married. If you want to get married, it can be devastating to learn that the man you love doesn’t want…

Have you ever felt an intense pull toward someone before you even really knew them? You meet, maybe you even speak, and you’re consumed with the desire to have this person. You need them. You may make the mistake of believing they are your soulmate. Isn’t that how it goes in the movies? You believe that this…

The term narcissist has entered the common vernacular and is casually thrown around everywhere from casual conversations to TikTok videos. But most people aren’t getting it right. Most of the time what they’re describing isn’t a narcissist, it’s just a jerk. A narcissist is a very specific breed that inflicts a specific type of damage.…

Few things are as frightening or nerve-wracking as a man needing space. Maybe he comes right out and tells you he needs some space, or maybe you notice he’s backing away … you haven’t seen him in a while, his texts or calls are shorter and less frequent, and you can just feel it in…

No one wants to be be played with. That’s a major fear that causes people to put up walls, preventing them from getting the love they truly want because love can’t flourish behind a plastic wall. I want to start off by saying that very few people intentionally seek out playing mind games- most guys…

It’s hard to admit when a guy isn’t serious about you, especially when you really like him. Usually, you’ll feel it in your gut but you’ll avoid facing it. When you’re hopeful about things it’s just easier to make excuses for his behavior and focus on any shred of evidence that he likes you enough…

When a man is withdrawing and pulling away, try these tips. When a man starts pulling away or withdrawing or acting cold toward you… it’s hard not to panic. It’s hard not to blame yourself: What did I do? Is it something I said? Was I too needy? Is he losing interest?  You reflexively start…

How to tell if a guy really likes you — and what to do about it.

A quick guide on making him fall for you. Have you noticed how certain women seem to have all the luck with men? They don’t really seem to do anything, and people are just drawn to them. And this has nothing to do with looks. Some people just have that certain something, the je ne…

The no contact rule is the only way when you’re breaking up. Whether you want to get over him or you want to get him back, after a breakup, you must follow the no-contact rule. Storytime! Let me tell you about the time I didn’t follow the no-contact rule and ended up experiencing the most…

A very simple guide explaining how to get over a breakup and all the tips you’ll need to get over a guy. If you’re going through a breakup or just trying to get over a guy who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, then I feel for you. I know how alone and isolating the experience can be. It feels…

What are we? Where is this going? I will never forget the first time I had “The Talk.” Well, it wasn’t technically the first time, but it was the first time it really mattered to me. I was a junior in college and had been dating a guy for about two months. It was one of…