29 People Confess Their Favorite Part About Having Sex (Besides The Orgasm)
1. That little gasp she makes the first time you slip it in.
“That little gasp she makes the first time you slip it in.”
2. Eye contact with someone you love while you’re inside them.
“Eye contact with someone you love while you’re inside them is fucking magic.”
3. When you slip off the panties with your teeth and they lift up their hips to help.
“When you slip off the panties with your teeth and they lift up their hips to help.”
4. The touching everywhere except where you want them to touch you most.
“The touching everywhere except where you want them to touch you most. I get serious fucking tingles when my guy licks everywhere but the clit, and then goes in for the kill.”
5. There is just something incredibly comforting, arousing, and exquisite in having a penis you love in your mouth.
“Giving oral sex. There is just something incredibly comforting, arousing, and exquisite in having a penis you love in your mouth.”
6. Mushing my face in her nethers.
“Mushing my face in her nethers.”
7. Just the softness of a woman’s body.
“A woman’s back. The hourglass shape and curvature is really sexy. In general just the softness of a woman’s body.”
8. Teasing. I love it because you can just get someone so worked up that they’re dying to fuck you.
“Teasing. I love it because you can just get someone so worked up that they’re dying to fuck you, meanwhile you’re also getting yourself so worked up you’re dying to fuck them. Just thinking about it turns me on. Oddly though, being teased doesn’t really do much for me.”
9. The first fistful of sheets she grabs.
“The first fistful of sheets she grabs is always the hottest.”
10. The slapping noises of the two bodies colliding.
“I fucking love the slapping noises of the two bodies colliding.”
11. How his nuts tighten near the end and he gets a tad louder.
“The way his hips shift and legs spread while giving head. Oh and of course all the moans, groans and little comments. How his nuts tighten near the end and he gets a tad louder.
I’m not sure why but I also love rubbing the taint while doing that. Sexy thoughts aside, I think it’s genuinely because he’s given me full access to a very vulnerable part of himself, while usually he’s stoic/reserved and careful with emotions, so to get them to do the opposite is an amazing feeling.”
12. Here you are, completely naked, with another person, locked in an embrace with your most intimate parts pressing against each other.
“The intimacy and closeness.
Here you are, completely naked, with another person, locked in an embrace with your most intimate parts pressing against each other. You’re grinding and sweating and breathing hard. Maybe you’re clawing away at one another and biting each other’s necks, or maybe you’re staring into each other’s eyes for the first time that day.
To me, the sex itself is secondary to doing something I enjoy with someone I enjoy. Something that’s only unique to us.”
13. There is that moment where this look of extreme joy and passion light up the woman’s face as you look into her eyes.
“It is almost impossible to describe, but there is that moment where this look of extreme joy and passion light up the woman’s face as you look into her eyes…and it just transforms her, paints her in a light you never see except in this moment…there is a saying in Chinese that roughly translates to ‘in the eyes of the lover an image of the most beautiful woman in the world is conjured up.’”
14. The way my boyfriend looks at me like I am the most amazing, incredible person he had ever met.
“The way my boyfriend looks at me like I am the most amazing, incredible person he had ever met. I’ve never known faith as strong as trust in a lover’s eyes. I’ve never seen a miracle more awe inspiring than the fact that two hands can touch and for two people make the world right, make it make sense.”
15. Her little involuntary spasms after I’ve made her cum.
“Her little involuntary spasms after I’ve made her cum. It’s the best when I’m still inside her and each slight movement seems to cause them.”
16. When he’s really horny, he’ll look at me with this sort of evil smile, and I feel like a steak on a platter in front of a gorgeous, hungry man.
“When he’s really horny, he’ll look at me with this sort of evil smile, and I feel like a steak on a platter in front of a gorgeous, hungry man. Unf, I love his ‘I fucking want you’ face.
When he bites his lip.
When I can clearly see how much he’s enjoying watching me and my pleasure.
Holding hands during the act, it’s so intimate.
When he cums, whether inside me (birth control) or down my throat. I fucking love watching him get off.
And the naked cuddles that come afterwards.”
17. That moment when you can’t continue the kissing because you both are so on the edge.
“Lots: Foreplay. Feeling how hard he gets before penetration. Giving him oral, the little gasp he makes if I pay attention to his balls and thighs (very sensitive thighs, it’s awesome). That moment when you can’t continue the kissing because you both are so on the edge.
But the best: when he grabs my head to look me in the eye while we bang. I freaking love that man.”
18. Knowing that what I’m doing is driving her wild.
“Knowing that what I’m doing is driving her wild, pushing her breasts into my hands as I feel her up from behind rocking her hips into my hand when I tease her clit especially when I get her to say ‘Oh, FUCK yes!!’ under her breath. That’s when I know that when the sex actually starts, she’s all set to go.”
19. Those little moments where you realize it’s not the sex that makes you happy, it’s the intimacy.
“Those little moments where you realize it’s not the sex that makes you happy, it’s the intimacy with that person. Those are super fulfilling.”
20. When she grabs onto me.
“When she grabs onto me. It’s like an amazing feeling.”
21. When she whispers in your ear how good it feels.
“When she whispers in your ear how good it feels.”
22. Scent of a woman. Sometimes I feel like a dog.
“Scent of a woman. Sometimes I feel like a dog.”
23. The desperate removal of each other’s clothes.
“The desperate removal of each other’s clothes.”
24. Afterglow. Hugging. Snuggling. Declarations of love.
“Afterglow. Hugging. Snuggling. Declarations of love. Being in a vulnerable state where you foolishly and rashly agree to get up and make breakfast in the morning.”
25. Her eyes. It’s like you can see right into her soul.
“Her eyes. It’s like you can see right into her soul, there’s so much emotion, so much joy, everything. Just pure, unrestricted, unrestrained emotion. That reflective glassiness, the pupils dilated, the exaggerated motions of the eyes, slowly rolling upwards, her eyes closing as if they were in slow motion.”
26. Falling asleep when it’s over.
“Falling asleep when it’s over.”
27. Ordering pizza after.
“Ordering pizza after.”
