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  • Forget Reality: Let’s Fall In Love

    Forget Reality: Let’s Fall In Love

    Because our reality, right now, it’s just about falling in love. Let’s put the real stuff aside—the past, our insecurities, all the baggage we’ve imported from all our journeys—and let’s just be. This is our moment to be fanciful, and we might not get another one, at least not together. I don’t want to have…

  • 10 Things To Know About Taking The Bus In Los Angeles

    10 Things To Know About Taking The Bus In Los Angeles

    I have lived in Los Angeles for over 12 years now, and one of the things that has made it a pleasant experience is finding ways to avoid driving, especially during rush hour. While I’ve used public transportation in L.A. off and on throughout the years, for the last six months, I’ve been regularly taking…

  • Sometimes, When It’s Raining

    Sometimes, When It’s Raining

    Sometimes, when it’s raining, I think about you. I think about you all the way over there, with all that ocean and all those years between us. I think about if you’re doing well, what your bedroom looks like, if you enjoy your job. I think about the times when there wasn’t any ocean between…

  • This Is Why I’m In Love With You

    This Is Why I’m In Love With You

    I’m in love with you because you’re my best friend. When people hesitate to call their partner their best friend, I’m incredulous as to why. Shouldn’t we all be falling in love with our best friend? By saying this, we’re not diminishing the value of our platonic friendships.

  • 10 Songs I Never Want To Hear Again

    10 Songs I Never Want To Hear Again

    Truth be told, I kind of love Avril. She makes unabashed catchy pop and makes no bones about the fact that she’s sort of a joke. But I can’t, won’t, don’t get behind the atrocity that is “Girlfriend.”

  • The Thing About Deleting A Facebook Friend

    The Thing About Deleting A Facebook Friend

    When Facebook first became popular it was of social protocol to immediately add someone you had just met, anyone you had met. Saw them across the room at a high school party? Add them! Bumped into them that one super fun time at that really awesome place? Add them!

  • Why Are The Kardashians So Popular?

    Why Are The Kardashians So Popular?

    What separates Kim Kardashian from all the other ladies who came to being known via a sex tape is that she’s managed to parlay it into a career that has NOTHING to do with sex.

  • This Is Why You’re My Best Friend

    This Is Why You’re My Best Friend

    We’re best friends because I can take you anywhere and you’ll adapt. Whether it’s the chicest party or some insufferable family gathering, you’ll deal with it like a champ. I don’t have to worry about leaving you alone or keeping you entertained.

  • An Awkward Letter To My Best Friend(?)

    An Awkward Letter To My Best Friend(?)

    My best friends have always changed over time. There was Madison in second grade. I helped her plaster her bedroom walls in ‘Teen Beat’ Jonathan Taylor Thomas posters. She and I lost touch when I changed schools. Then, there was Matthew in fourth grade.

  • What It’s Like To Be A Pretty Girl

    What It’s Like To Be A Pretty Girl

    When you go out, you always end up getting too messed up due to a combination of accepting too many free drinks from losers and drinking by yourself in the corner while your friends meet nice, college-educated guys with jobs.

  • 20 Ways To Scare Your Crush Away

    20 Ways To Scare Your Crush Away

    Minimize eye contact. As a general rule, the ratio of eye contact with your crush to how much you’re crushing on your crush should be inverse. If you must acknowledge your crush, a sideways glance or indirect stare is advised.

  • What To Do When Your Best Friend Ditches You For Their BF/GF

    What To Do When Your Best Friend Ditches You For Their BF/GF

    Sometimes it’s okay to choose dicks before chicks. Sometimes it’s okay to go off the grid and just do the whole “I’M IN LOVE!” thing. The first few months of a relationship are always intoxicating. It’s like you’re on drugs and going on a love binge — it’s very “Hit Me Baby One More Time”…

  • The First Time You Fart In Front Of Someone You Like

    The First Time You Fart In Front Of Someone You Like

    I am aware that a vast majority of people are both ashamed and embarrassed about farting, even though I’m not. I’m also aware that a vast majority of this vast majority are women, and moreover I am aware that most women only fart perfume and poop rainbows (everyone has to fart and poop OK, some…

  • Why It’s Okay To Date Someone You Don’t Have Strong Feelings For

    Why It’s Okay To Date Someone You Don’t Have Strong Feelings For

    I learned so much about myself from dating. I was challenged and put out of my comfort zone. I was taught how to compromise and how to deal with different personalities. It was exciting, scary, and foreign.

  • How To Lose Your Virginity

    How To Lose Your Virginity

    Your first time is special. It sounds corny to say but how could it not be? SEX IS SO INSANE. The fact that we do it blows my mind on a regular basis. The first time is special because you feel like you’ve just been clued in on a giant secret.

  • Why I Pretend I Don’t Like You Like That

    Why I Pretend I Don’t Like You Like That

    I’m pretending that I don’t like you like that, and I bet you don’t even know. Why would you? I’ve put a lot of effort into this charade, and I’m pulling it off with such ease I’ve almost even convinced myself that I don’t like you like that. Sort of like that creepy thing people…

  • Some Thoughts On The Winky Face ;-)

    Some Thoughts On The Winky Face ;-)

    Maybe our generation should be called Generation :-) instead of Generation Y or whatever they’re calling us. Now, conveniently, you don’t have to put your complicated thoughts and sentiments into words. You can just use a smiley.

  • Ten Flawless Love Songs

    Ten Flawless Love Songs

    The best love songs make it possible for you to feel like you’re in love for the duration of the song. Even if you’ve been single for some time, you can play the song and feel like you belong to somebody. That’s what “I Only Have Eyes For You” does for me.