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Travis Barker Was Married Before Shanna Moakler and Kourtney Kardashian, and He’s Finally Talking About the Wife Nobody Knew About

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Let’s go way back, to the early Blink-182 days.

Shanna Moakler and Travis Barker at MTV's Total Request Live in New York City, 2005
Shanna Moakler and Travis Barker step out together for an appearance on MTV’s Total Request Live in New York City in April 2005. Photo by Peter Kramer / Getty Images.

Before Shanna Moakler and long before Kourtney Kardashian, Travis Barker married Melissa Kennedy. The marriage lasted less than a year, and he says nonstop touring in his mid-20s is what pulled it apart.

Travis Barker and Kourtney Kardashian at the Crossroads Kitchen ribbon-cutting ceremony at The Commons at Calabasas
Travis Barker and Kourtney Kardashian step out together in Calabasas for the ribbon-cutting of Crossroads Kitchen at The Commons in October 2022. Photo by Alberto E. Rodriguez / Getty Images.

Travis Barker married Melissa Kennedy on September 22, 2001 at the Mission Inn in Riverside. He was 25. She was 19, from Fontana, and had already been in Blink-182’s “Urethra Chronicles” videos and running his clothing brand Famous Stars and Straps as its vice president. He had her name tattooed in script on the right side of his neck. He later covered it with a rose.

Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler photographed together
Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler, who married in October 2004 and starred together on MTV’s Meet the Barkers, photographed in 2024. Photo by Nikki Nelson / WENN.

In his 2015 memoir “Can I Say,” he wrote that he felt like he was making a mistake walking down the aisle. Two days before the wedding, his friend Brett Vann threw him a bachelor party at a California bar that Vann later described, on the record, as one of the dirtiest nights he’d ever been part of, with roughly 20 strippers and far more women than men. Barker says he resolved to be faithful once they were actually married, and stuck to it.

Travis Barker in a red Adidas shirt holds hands with a woman in a blue tank top at the MTV VMAs 2000 step-and-repeat backdrop.
At Radio City Music Hall in New York City, Blink-182’s Travis Barker walks the red carpet hand-in-hand with a date during the 17th Annual MTV Video Music Awards on September 7, 2000. Photo by Ron Galella / Ron Galella Collection via Getty Images.

The marriage lasted less than a year. Divorce was filed in August 2002.

Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler together
Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler, who wed in October 2004 and shared two children together, pictured before their split. Photo by Jody Cortes / WENN.

I was touring with Blink non-stop. It was tough, especially since I was married at the time,” he says in his new Hulu documentary “Travis Barker: Louder Than Fear.” “I kind of realized that the relationship wasn’t working out for either of us anymore.”

He says it ended in a “huge blowout.” She told him to go back to L.A. and do his thing. “Life just kept getting crazier and crazier.” By that summer he was already linked to Shanna Moakler.

Kennedy never cashed in. She moved into real estate in Orange County, where she runs Lifestyle Estates Realty and Funding. Barker has said they’re still on friendly terms.

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Shanna Moakler and Travis Barker at MTV's Total Request Live in New York City, 2005
Shanna Moakler and Travis Barker step out together for an appearance on MTV's Total Request Live in New York City in April 2005. Photo by Peter Kramer Getty Images.
Travis Barker and Kourtney Kardashian at the Crossroads Kitchen ribbon-cutting ceremony at The Commons at Calabasas
Travis Barker and Kourtney Kardashian step out together in Calabasas for the ribbon-cutting of Crossroads Kitchen at The Commons in October 2022. Photo by Alberto E. Rodriguez Getty Images.
Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler photographed together
Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler, who married in October 2004 and starred together on MTV's Meet the Barkers, photographed in 2024. Photo by Nikki Nelson WENN.
Travis Barker in a red Adidas shirt holds hands with a woman in a blue tank top at the MTV VMAs 2000 step-and-repeat backdrop.
At Radio City Music Hall in New York City, Blink-182's Travis Barker walks the red carpet hand-in-hand with a date during the 17th Annual MTV Video Music Awards on September 7, 2000. Photo by Ron Galella Ron Galella Collection via Getty Images.
Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler together
Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler, who wed in October 2004 and shared two children together, pictured before their split. Photo by Jody Cortes WENN.
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