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24. A man who acts like an old fashioned gentleman

“Holding doors. I’m all for courtesy but this particular gesture lost most of its meaning when hoop skirts went out of fashion. If my arms are full, do please get the door. If your arms are full I’ll do the same for you. Otherwise it doesn’t matter.” — doublestitch

25. A man with a fancy job like a doctor or lawyer

“Big muscles. Big penis. Fancy shit. Doctor or lawyer with $$. NOPE. If someone wants to achieve all those things, go for it! Seriously, if you’re successful in life it’s more than okay to enjoy it. For me personally though, those things don’t sway me one bit.

The truth is that kindness is the most underrated quality. And when I use the word kind, I don’t mean someone who can’t/won’t set boundaries (aka ‘nice’), I mean someone who is thoughtful and respectful of others. Someone who has a healthy sense of self-respect will respect other people, and I feel it shows through kindness. It is SO much more important to be kind rather than right. And of course laughter because at the end of the day we all need someone who just makes us smile :)” — Team_JL Thought Catalog Logo Mark


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