Luis Pabon

In a healthy relationship, our goal is to make our partners feel like they are valued, respected, cherished, wanted and loved.

Foolishly I spent my twenties haphazardly giving my love and assistance to the wrong people.

It has more to do with another person’s unresolved issues, hurts, wounds, fears and past experiences. It speaks more to them not being at a place in their lives where they feel secure and good about themselves.

Stop giving package deals to men who only deserve happy meals.

Where people invest their time, energy and RESOURCES is where they invest their heart.

Loving yourself enough involves rediscovering and refining who you are. It involves bringing yourself with you where ever you go and never leaving yourself home.

I want to be the one that ruins you for anybody else.

These days, we don’t do relationships. We do relationSHITS that come in the form of flirtationships, situationships, textationships and infatuationships but not REAL ACTUAL relationships.

All I was to you was a pit stop in your exploration, a post adolescent experiment that ended as quickly as it began.

You will be seen as a sugar daddy.

There is always something vying for our attention, leading us to distraction, forcing our hand to juggle a menagerie of priorities while multi-tasking a series of small tasks in order to make headway in our days.

Things that were indeed apart of my identity were things I tended to overlook constantly. Ironically by overlooking myself, I somehow emitted an energy that enabled others to overlook me as well.