Luis Pabon
A fun-loving creative soul who enjoys various forms of expression.
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The Truth About On-Again, Off-Again Friendships
Your friends are supposed to be your lifeline, your port in the storm, your healing. They are supposed to grant you peace, not be the architects of your agony.
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The True Cost Of Being Single
You are always the one that has to do all the calling, all the texting, all the reaching out.
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How To Know When The Person You’re Dating Isn’t Over Their Ex
How they discuss their last breakup can be a window of insight into their readiness to invest in you.
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Read This When You Feel Like You’re Fighting Alone
Truth is, it’s hard having to be your own safety net and having to catch yourself at every turn.
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Missing You Is Too Much
Every part of me wants to call you and ask how you are doing and really mean it.
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What It Really Means For The Relationship When Your Partner Has A Wandering Eye
In a healthy relationship, our goal is to make our partners feel like they are valued, respected, cherished, wanted and loved.
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Sometimes Their Cheating Has Nothing To Do With You
It has more to do with another person’s unresolved issues, hurts, wounds, fears and past experiences. It speaks more to them not being at a place in their lives where they feel secure and good about themselves.
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Stop Giving The Most To Someone Who Gives You The Least
Stop giving package deals to men who only deserve happy meals.
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What It Really Means to Love Yourself Enough
Loving yourself enough involves rediscovering and refining who you are. It involves bringing yourself with you where ever you go and never leaving yourself home.
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The Brutal Truth About Having A ‘Back-Up’ Boyfriend Or Girlfriend
These days, we don’t do relationships. We do relationSHITS that come in the form of flirtationships, situationships, textationships and infatuationships but not REAL ACTUAL relationships.
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This Is Why I Can No Longer Love You
All I was to you was a pit stop in your exploration, a post adolescent experiment that ended as quickly as it began.
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6 Perils Of Dating Gay Twenty-Somethings In Your Thirties
You will be seen as a sugar daddy.
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Read This If You Are Feeling Overlooked And Under-Appreciated
Things that were indeed apart of my identity were things I tended to overlook constantly. Ironically by overlooking myself, I somehow emitted an energy that enabled others to overlook me as well.
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Why I Still Don’t Want To Be Gay Anymore
Does the constant revolving door of meaningless hookups eventually lead to the generalized devaluation of the American gay male? I think so.
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Why I No Longer Want To Be Gay
Initially I came to this community searching for love, intimacy and brotherhood. In return, I got shade, infidelity, loneliness and disunity. The self-loathing in this community forces you to encounter a series of broken men who are self-destructive, hurtful, cruel and vindictive towards one another.