January Nelson

ARIES: Slow dancing without any music on.

VIRGO: You’ve been trying to ignore the fact that you’re not over your ex and need to put effort into examining those feelings. 

LEO: You hate going out with friends and being the only one who doesn’t have their partner with them.

GEMINI: Sometimes, they get distracted and don’t answer texts messages, then leave them unanswered for weeks.

You don’t have to jump into a new relationship right away but start putting yourself out there again. Harmlessly flirt. Play around. Show yourself that the person you left behind isn’t the only person in the world.

Whoever you end up with is bound to make mistakes. But are they going to take responsibility for those mistakes? Are they going to apologize? Or are they going to gaslight you, lie about their actions, and make you feel like you’re crazy for getting upset?

Even though you can’t attend any parties this year, you can still have fun on Halloween.

LEO: When they’re on top, in control, acting dominant. 

I like to paint, so I just take my brushes and paint. It is so soothing to feel the soft strokes of the brush on canvas. I just love to make a beautiful, colorful mess. It is analogous to breaking things and shouting for me.

She doesn’t want to text back and forth for months without the relationship going anywhere — and she hopes you feel the same. She hopes you want something real. 

Have had several female friends bite me in a playful manner. Turned me on every single time.

If you never initiate conversations or hangout sessions, they’re going to assume you aren’t interested. They’re going to assume you can easily go days without talking to them.

LIBRA: You should be more selfish because you can’t please everyone. Someone is always going to be upset with you, so instead of doing what you think others expect of you, do what you really want to do.

My most recent therapist said, “Productivity does not equal worth or value.” In regards to people feeling like just because we’re home all the time during the pandemic, we should be doing stuff for and in the home (cleaning, hobbies, renovations, etc). And then feeling badly that we don’t have the energy for those things.

Instead of using a random pick-up line on them that would work on anyone you saw, give them a specific, personalized compliment. Tell them how much you like their outfit, their hair, their eyes, their smile.

Hearing a song that causes me to reflect or think of certain memories.

Maybe you don’t want to bother your friends. Maybe you get nervous sending the first message. But you don’t want your friends to feel like you only bother talking to them when they initiate the conversation.

ARIES: You don’t have to forgive someone in order to achieve peace. Sometimes leaving them behind is better.