11. Girls with “flaws”: blemishes (stretch marks, not-perfect teeth, scars, wrinkles, etc.), body hair, and/or weight.
I was walking a fine line between awkward teenage kid and full-on incel at 14. I wanted the perfect blond hair, blue eyes girl, shorter/smaller than me, perfect skin, thin body, etc. You’ve seen the cringe posts those losers make, so you know full well where I’m going with this. I am not that anymore and now I find beauty in anybody, but the most attractive thing to me is an enthusiastic personality—I love watching women talk about things they’re passionate about!
