Darlene Lancer
Author, LMFT, and Relationship Expert. See www.whatiscodependency.com.
Why Can’t I Get Over My Ex?
Shame often causes people to withdraw or push the other person away.
Here’s Everything You Need To Know About Emotional Abandonment
Many people don’t realize that they’re feeling emotionally abandoned or that they did as a child.
These Are The Red Flags That Someone Is Truly Emotionally Unavailable
People who are too flattering. Like snake charmers, these wooers may also be adept listeners and communicators.
Can A Narcissist Love?
Some swear they’re loved; others are convinced they’re not.
The Hidden Power Of Self-Talk
Positive thinkers are more optimistic, confident, and successful. Their effect is contagious and uplifts friends, coworkers, and loved ones.
Gaslighting 101: How To Spot It And How To Recover From Abusive Behavior
Gaslighting is a malicious and hidden form of mental and emotional abuse.
Reality Isn’t What You Think: How Cognitive Distortions Harm Us
If you suffer from anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, or perfectionism, your thinking can skew your perceptions. Cognitive distortions reflect flawed thinking, often stemming from insecurity and low-self-esteem.
Discover Your True Self: How To Stop Codependency From Ruling Your Life
Codependency is called a disease of a “lost self.”