Zach Stafford
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Zach Stafford
When A Bulimic Goes On A Diet
She lit a cigarette and smirked, “Well, I am sure you will finish it off before I even get some.” Stomach pain.
Thinking About Infinity
I think we, as humans, like endings. Books have endings, TV shows end, you crave the end of a work out; you even want sex to end, at some point.
We Need To Talk About “Top Privilege”
Tops still can eat at Chipotle before sex, and that is a privilege. A huge one.
This Video Will Open Your Eyes And Your Heart
KOKUMO’s new video explores the issues, the struggles and the lives of transwomen and the men they love, and shows how complicated their love can be.
How To Take A Test
Just use the number they assigned you and fill this out – be truthful, it won’t hurt, I promise.
Racism Is Real, Even For Oprah
Racism isn’t just a “thing” that happens to the non-rich, but it’s something that can and will happen to anyone, Oprah Winfrey included. Especially if you do anything that involves Tina Turner in any way, shape or form.
Remembering My Internet Boyfriend
At thirteen I couldn’t be me in real life, so from my metaphoric closet in the hills of Tennessee, I found myself by peering through a window in that closet, a chat window at a boy named John, who I have yet to forget.
The 5 Stages Of Having A Crush
You think about them all day, look at photos you’ve snapped together, stare at their Facebook constantly, and every time your phone buzzes you hope it’s a text from them.
I Won’t Be Young Forever
I know that getting older isn’t a death sentence, but rather proof of life, proof that I was here and that I fought hard enough in some way to stay alive.
21 Books Every Gay Man Needs To Read Right Now
Michael Cunningham, marry me. Seriously.
How To Hack Your Drunchies
It’s 2 A.M. and you find yourself in front of a fast food restaurant. The world spins, your stomach growls, and your heart beats. You’re drunk and hungry.
4 Great Places To Break Up With Someone
Airports, especially American airports, are the most monitored public places around. They are stacked with security, cameras, and emergency buttons that can get you help fast for just about anything.
I Almost Witnessed A Hate Crime
Tensions rose even higher, leading to the man threaten her. I grabbed my phone and inched forward, ready to call the police if it turned physical.
12 Reasons You Shouldn’t Go To Nashville
Even a piece of fried chicken was harmed as these Nashville residents did everything they could to tell the world: YOU ARE NOT WELCOME.
No, My Sweater’s Not “Too Gay”
At 13 I couldn’t control my attraction to men, but I could control what shirt I was going to wear.
The Smell Of Middle School
I began putting one leg in at a time into my recovered jeans. As I slid them up I stared blankly into my locker and noticed my bottle of Fierce cologne — a cologne only sold at Abercrombie & Fitch — had a picture of a man’s torso on it. This man’s abdominal muscles were ripped and his body was lean. He had no face and I thought that was because any one could be him or at least dream of being him.
Location, Location, Location: Love In The Time Of Tinder
Over the past years we have seen the rise of GPS becoming intrinsic to our digital lives. From Facebook to Foursquare to Google, the divide between cyberspace and meat-space (term for ‘real life’) seems to be becoming smaller, making dating an obvious next stop.
Monogam-ish: Two Is Company, But Is Three Really A Crowd?
Is monogamy not real or are my friends just a little promiscuous? Let’s look at some data.