Vanessa Rodriguez
figuring it out by writing it out
Articles by
Vanessa Rodriguez
This Is What I’m Learning About Love
We expect people to love us the way we love them, without realizing how high the stakes are.
Please Don’t Forget To Come Home To Yourself
It’s so easy to get sidetracked from that journey back home with the world we live in.
You Deserve More Than A Reckless Love
You deserve more than a reckless love that makes you question your value.
When You Know, You Know
They fill your life with a certain hope you didn’t know existed. They make the future shine differently and the possibilities brighter.
What No One Wants To Talk About
I remember him. I remember him well. Mainly, I remember how this experience made me feel.
When You Fall In Love With Someone Else, You Fall In Love With Yourself
Take a look at the people you love. You’ll realize that you love the way you feel about yourself when you’re around them.
I’m Having A Funeral For Our Failed Relationship
I’m ready to bury you. I’m ready to put you in my past.
7 Reasons To Say ‘Thank U, Next’
News flash: You’re a bad bitch that deserves more than just settling for any old relationship.
You’re Not Gone If I Remember
You think you know what it feels like to hurt or go through hard times. Until you hear that word: cancer.
What It’s Like Loving Someone Struggling With Depression And Addiction
It’s knowing you don’t stand a chance next to their battle with addiction.
A Reminder To Keep Moving Forward
Keep opening doors because the further you walk down the street, the brighter it is.
Dear First Love—Thank You
Thank you for being patient when my flaws became a challenge.
I’m Sorry, But He Won’t Change
When someone has shown you time and time again they’re going to hurt you, believe them.
What You Want Isn’t Always What You Need
We attach ourselves to potential. We fall in love with potential. We get so attached to the idea of what could be.
When I Look Back At That Girl
When I look back at that girl, I remember how she enjoyed the most mundane of things. How exhilarating it felt to be with someone new and to feel the spontaneity of it.
Don’t Go Back, Unless
Don’t go back because of the memories. Don’t go back because of the peak moments or because of the highlight reel you’re looking at.
5 Reasons Why Every Girl Needs to Take A Hiatus From Boys Sometimes
Taking time to focus solely on the loving and caring of you is the best thing you can do for yourself, and for everyone else that could potentially come into your life.
The Only Validation You Need Is Your Own
You can learn to live without the constant validation, and you can learn what you’ve depended on them to tell you all this time. Learn that you are valid.