40 Guys On What They Wish Their Female Partners Would Do In Bed

Bite my ear.

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1. Initiate sex. Even once.

Initiate. I don’t want to feel like I am asking for it every time. Sometimes I would just like her to start things off.

2. Make more noise.

Moan more and orgasm from penetration.

Unfortunately, we live in an apartment right now so we don’t want to be “those” neighbors. As for the penetration, maybe with time!

3. Make less noise.

First, I wish she would shut the fuck up for like 2 seconds. I’m all for girls who are vocal but god damn this shit is completely out of hand. Anytime we’re in bed all I get is a nonstop stream of “fuck me, harder, harder, you’re so big” that starts the second I’m inside her and doesn’t stop until I finish. No moaning, just constant talking, drives me insane.

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Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.