37. Every time we get Chinese food, my dad opens the fortune cookie and reads “Help! I am a prisoner in a Chinese bakery!”
38. So many, and most of them he inherited from my grandfather. A few that come right to mind…
When opening a present after removing the wrapping paper: “A box! Just what I always wanted!”
Whenever halibut is listed on the menu: “I may order this just for the halibut!”
Whenever someone blows their nose: “You think it’s a cold, but it’s snot.”
“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino
Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.
