26. Girls with abs / muscle. No matter how someone’s personality is or where they come from or what their job is one simple fact about the human body is that having abs shows extreme commitment and work. Its admirable and that commitment to a healthy life style is like *boing*.
27. Big women, like my height or taller.
28. Feet. Discovering a hidden kink is a life changing experience.
“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino
Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.
