35. The way we deal with problems (personal and interpersonal) is different. He likes to hash it out then and there, while I like to ruminate process for a few days while I form my thoughts on it. It makes it seem like he’s confrontational and I’m passive-aggressive, which began to wear on us. It was fine at the time, but we knew in ten years we wouldn’t be able to stand one another.
36. I think he cheated on me. I honestly thought I could get over cheating but as it was proven, I can’t. I could never trust him again and there is no relationship without trust. He also took me for granted and I am not going to accept someone who is that comfortable with making me miserable. I really thought he was/is the love of my life though.
37. Ultimately his parents and his inability to step up to them and put his foot down as a grown man.
