Todd Clayton
Articles by
Todd Clayton
This Is Why Pride Matters
I started working at Starbucks three weeks after I graduated from college.
A White Response To Charleston
We cannot be timid about calling this what it was: a terrorist act of racially-motivated hate, perpetrated by a 21-year-old man who penned his white supremacist manifesto 150 years after the abolition of slavery.
How I Learned To Have Good Sex
Someone grabbed my arm while I was ordering a beer and told me I was just her friend’s type, and would I come meet him?
Everything In My Gym Bag, In Dr. Seuss Rhyme
Today I present you, in Seussian verse/ A list, comprehensive–no lies interspersed.
Good Sex And Erotic Power: Why We Need To Lose Virginity And De-Center Marriage
Too many religious communities, the one in which I grew up included, prize–more than service to and advocacy for the oppressed–pre-marital virginity. To “lose your virginity” before your wedding day is to relegate yourself to the margins of the congregation–shame and self-loathing your near-constant companions.
The Queer Community Has To Stop Being Transphobic
Trans* voices are conspicuously absent, and too many uninformed and insensitive lesbian, gay, bisexual and queer persons are doing harm to the trans* community while simultaneously purporting to speak for them.
Gay Will Never Be The New Black: What James Baldwin Taught Me About My White Privilege
Mainstream gay culture privileges the white narrative, and it does so at the expense of its own legitimacy.
What I’ve Learned Since Moving To New York
New York is Thai take-out, long nights in the library, and drinks in Greenwich. It’s Emily, Matt, Heather, and Toni.
Why Marriage Equality Isn’t Enough
Like pulling up a weed from the flower, token victories, while undoubtedly important, can cloud our vision and prevent us from fighting against the root of social systems that make such victories necessary in the first place.
The Importance Of Protecting Pro-LGBT Islamic Voices
“When I pray,” he says, “I am always asking for love. And if it is a guy, then so be it.”
When You Miss Someone Who Lives In A Different State
And then Brandon Flowers comes on while you’re standing in H&M — the song he sent you months ago — and, like an army of guerrilla warriors hell bent on foiling your resolve, the missing invades your consciousness, secures its flag in your otherwise preoccupied mind, and holds you hostage.
A Gay Christian’s Response To Pastor Charles Worley
Equally frustrating and difficult to stomach, however, is the horrendous portrait of the Christian tradition that Worley has painted with his bile and hate-filled rhetoric. He has spoken authoritatively and with dangerous certainty for what is an infinitely diverse community, one in which his hostile, conservative, antiquated voice is becoming a minority.