Soumya John
Soumya writes about emotional intelligence and mental health.
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Soumya John
29 Things I Learned In My 29th Year
What we covet is not always meant for us. Instead, if we focus on nurturing what we have, it will grow and lead us to the next right thing for us.
You Are Not Defined By The People Who Leave You
Your legacy is what you give, how you love, and those who stay.
27 Signs That You Are Emotionally Mature
You do not follow your first impulse to lash out when you are upset or angry.
Read This When You’re Stuck In A Relationship But Need To Move On
There will be times when you have to move on from a relationship before you feel ready to.
Writing 100 Letters Finally Healing My Broken Heart
A few years ago, I fell in love with a writer. When I stumbled upon his essays, it was love at first read. He was a brilliant man and a powerful wordsmith.
27 Things You’ll Only Understand If You Have Emotionally Intelligent Friendships
You don’t talk every day, but you remain well informed about each other’s lives.
Read This If You Need Strength On A Bad Day
On those days, when the tears don’t stop and the sleep does not arrive, when lightning strikes and rips into your life, please remember this: You are going to make it through.
On Women Who Hate Cats But Love Men With Cats
A love story. Sort of.
Read This If You Struggling To Feel Loved During Social Distancing
If you are horrified by what’s happening, feeling ignored and angry, wondering what you did wrong, I need you to remember this: You did the best you could in looking after yourself and getting through till this day.
6 Things To Remember On Days You Don’t Feel Beautiful
Beauty is subjective. You don’t need to find yourself beautiful for someone else to find you beautiful.
11 Bad Habits To Leave Behind This Year
Not all of us need to wake up, meditate, and work out. Don’t buy into what you read online and what someone else’s routine is like.
19 Things That 2019 Taught Me About Loving Myself
The cornerstone of self-love is being able to trust yourself.
A Reminder That You Will Move On No Matter What
Moving on from someone you love is hard and strange and can sometimes take much longer than we’d like. But if there is one thing I do know, it’s that moving on is for everyone.
Why Some People Leave You For Reasons That Have Nothing To Do With You
People walk out in shame. They walk out in fear. They run away. They hide.
Here’s To The Friends Who Are Our Greatest Cheerleaders
Here’s to the friends whose eyes light up when they hear our dreams. Whose hearts flutter with joy as they watch us climb. Whose faith fuels our journey, on whose love we soar.
27 Universal Truths I’ve Learned In 27 Years
Hold people gently—forevers are a series of nows.
9 Game Changing Affirmations To Start Your Day
I’m worthy of being seen, no matter what I look like.
Thank You To All The Men Who’ve Left
I knew right then that I needed no one but myself to pull me up and keep going.