Shelby Sever
Good person, messy eater, notorious plant killer.
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Shelby Sever
Read This If You’re Struggling With Moving Away From Home
Change is ultimately the thing that makes us who we were meant to be all along.
Grief Is A Gift We Must Learn To Embrace
Grief is a great inevitability, and that isn’t a bad thing.
In The Quiet Moments, I Daydream Of You
I have a minimal list of skills in this life, but among them is my ability to daydream extensively.
That Night In Your Kitchen
I don’t know what I’m waiting for in your kitchen. Some sort of solution, I guess. I never get it.
I Was Young, But I Knew What Love Was
Love was an eyebrow scar. It was a booming chuckle (not laugh) that overtook the sanctuary. It was a mess of curly hair, twinkling eyes, and crooked smiles.
A Short List Of Fears That I Refuse To Let Control Me
I understand that in some stories I play a minor role. I understand in some I am a passing extra, or a main character, and sometimes I am the villain. I’m okay with all of those roles, but what worries me most is that my overall view of myself is inaccurate.
We Need To Stop Apologizing For Just Existing
Something I’ve noticed lately—and for a long time, to be honest—is how often we say we’re sorry.
A Few Thoughts On Leaving Home
Moving away from home is one of the most exhilarating experiences that I firmly believe everyone should indulge in during their lifetimes.
The Truth Is, Closure Is A Waste Of Time
Why would you cut open a wound you have already healed?
14 Truths About Relationships That No One Ever Talks About
Time doesn’t heal all wounds—accepting your circumstances and processing responsibility for your actions does.
I Still Deserve An Apology I’ll Never Get
Even though I crave justice and stability and for things to be set right; I already took care of that myself.
An Open Letter To The Boy Who Broke My Best Friend’s Heart
You’re missing out on one of the most naturally beautiful people I have ever seen, from the inside out.
When Something Beautiful Ends
I am no stranger to endings.
Someday We’ll Wake Up And We Won’t Miss You Anymore
Eventually, after many long months and many early morning heartaches, you won’t come to our minds at all.
Taking Responsibility For Your Actions Means Taking Responsibility For Their Impact, Too
You are responsible for the unplanned effects of your intent. You are responsible for yourself and the consequences your actions might cause.
The Best Part About Breaking Up
I would inevitably find my excitement for better, my anticipation that the next relationship would eventually become exciting instead of harrowing.
Your Relationship Ending Does Not Mean You Failed
One day, all of a sudden, there they are. Almost as if they had been waiting for you the entire time.
A Short List Of Things I Heard, Despite What You May Have Said
What you said: “I just wanted to let you know I’m aware that I wasted a real friendship here.”