Rania Naim

Help me heal from all the thoughts that make me guarded and all the feelings I force myself to repress because I’ve been hurt before. Help me heal from all the broken pieces and make my heart whole again.

You lose her when you make her feel that being with her is like being with any other girl.

Learn how to walk away if you’re the only one making the effort. If you’re the only one trying and if it leaves you feeling like you’re not good enough every time you stay but your feelings are not reciprocated.

Sometimes it feels lonely. It feels like you’re the only one who sees the light at the end of the tunnel, what lies on the other side, the magic that could happen if everything goes right.

Don’t hurt yourself trying to hurt me. Don’t hurt us only to discover that you can’t live with the pain.

Your future is not tied to anyone who doesn’t think you’re great or someone who is not afraid of losing you. Your future is not tied to people who belittle you or make you feel small, it’s not tied to people who forget you.

Don’t hate your heartbreak. It made you stronger. It made you wiser. It made you more discerning in your choices. It made you realize that your future is not tied to anyone who leaves.

They love us with our mess, our wacky choices, our odd quirks, our crazy family and our foolish past. They love us for our heart.

I wonder what you tell strangers about me
because you’re not telling me much
and I’m not telling you much either
but I tell strangers about you.

Sometimes I wonder if I’m a magnet for the unavailable. The ones who are still hung up on their ex, the ones who can’t get themselves to trust or love again.

Sometimes things remain the same because we need to change ourselves.

Their best friend starts hitting on you.

She’s afraid of giving you a second chance because she’s tired. She’s tired of giving chances that people take for granted, she’s tired of giving love to those who can’t love her back.

Wait for the one who would rather listen to your deepest secrets than try to win everyone over by his noise.

I still care because this is who I am, I don’t know how to stop caring, I don’t know how to unlove someone, I don’t know how to unfeel.

You say goodbye when they say it first
whether silently or out loud.
You see it in their eyes, in their actions,
you hear it, even in their most loving their words.

You’re the ones who don’t always look good ‘on paper’ because you’re out there chasing happiness. You’re out there trying to write your own story. You’re out there choosing life.

INFPs are feelers so they feel everything so deeply. It takes them a while to bounce back from criticism or rejection, they can’t just ‘get over their feelings,’ they need time to heal and even more time to open up again.