Paul Hudson

I understand that you believe you can change him for the better, but the truth is that you can only hope that’s the case. You hope you can change him, because you love him. I get that.

But just because he’s never told you that he loves you doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you.

I may never get over you, but truth be told, I don’t want to get over you. I want this new sort of love I have for you to stay with me. I want it to stay with me as I continue on with my life, as I accomplish my goals, as I find someone new to share my life with.

I’m not sure that I was ever a real player. I never played women, but I did play the game.

If you love them, make them feel better — even if it means lying to them.

Don’t come over to ‘Netflix & chill’ — make him take you out on a proper date. Don’t chase him down all the time — let him do some chasing himself. Love is the answer. It’s the solution.

She’s looking for a man that can help her live the life that she wants to live. And let’s be honest… that’s exactly what you’re looking for.

It’s not about conquering the world. It’s about conquering yourself.

We’re so busy chasing our dreams, not realizing that we’re overlooking the most important part of those dreams: the human interaction they allow for.

It’s nice to think that if you put enough time and effort into changing the one you love, you’d create the perfect partner. It’s this wishful, unrealistic thinking that almost always leads to misery.

You should be happy, but you’re not. You’ve conditioned yourself to have sadness, regret, and anger as your baseline. So while most people only have a few steps to go from baseline to happiness, you have several miles.

People impact our lives and our realities in different ways. When you fall for someone who changes the way you see the world, losing that person means losing your reality.