Olayemi Olurin
Olayemi Olurin is a Public Defender and Writer in Queens, NY
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Sorry, But Ride-Or-Die Relationships Are Actually Super Toxic
Why does love for women have to be synonymous with “I’ll cross the ocean for you, even though I don’t know how to swim”? I’m not crossing it for you, Lance; I’m not drowning for you.
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When He Tries To Come Back, Don’t Hesitate To Cut Him Off
Ladies, you know when a man is being inconsistent, when he’s not invested, when he’s doing his own thing. You know what else? He knows too.
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Men, Stop Trying To Tell Us How To Be Women
Here’s the first thing everyone needs to understand before we proceed: Women are individuals, not male accessories. We do not exist solely to gain male approval or for some man to call our own.