Olayemi Olurin
Olayemi Olurin is a Public Defender and Writer in Queens, NY
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Olayemi Olurin
Don’t Waste Your Energy Being Hung Up On Your Trash Ex
You have to just accept him for what he was when he was with you and be resolute in understanding that he isn’t for you.
Sorry, But Ride-Or-Die Relationships Are Actually Super Toxic
Why does love for women have to be synonymous with “I’ll cross the ocean for you, even though I don’t know how to swim”? I’m not crossing it for you, Lance; I’m not drowning for you.
When He Tries To Come Back, Don’t Hesitate To Cut Him Off
Ladies, you know when a man is being inconsistent, when he’s not invested, when he’s doing his own thing. You know what else? He knows too.
Men, Stop Trying To Tell Us How To Be Women
Here’s the first thing everyone needs to understand before we proceed: Women are individuals, not male accessories. We do not exist solely to gain male approval or for some man to call our own.
Here’s Why You Should Embrace Impostor Syndrome In 2020
All these professions, jobs, titles, what have you, they’re just performances. They’re just performances by regular-ass people acting their asses off because they feel like impostors too.