Nui Kara

You focus more on what makes YOU happy or how to accomplish certain goals in your life in the future. 

Start a conversation on something light and fun and keep eye contact

You know that even when the world is falling apart, one thing for sure is he has your back and you have his. You have that comfort to fight and overcome your challenges. 

Be honest with yourself why you want to try the online dating.

Divorce is not the end of the world. As long as you do everything with good intention and you are willing to learn from it, I believe it is a good thing.