This Is What Each Zodiac Sign Does When They’re Too Nice To Say They’re Just Not Into You

Gemini: They'll use their friend as a shield.

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Mason Wilkes
Mason Wilkes

Aries

(March 21st to April 19th)

They’ll make an excuse to leave (quickly). They’ll say they got a text from their best friend saying her cat is dying and she doesn’t want to be alone, or they’ll tell you their food must’ve not reacted well with their stomach and that they need to go home ASAP. Whatever excuse they use, they’ll try to make an exit on your date or get-together and they’ll do it before you even have the time to say goodbye.

Taurus

(April 20th to May 21st)

A Taurus will physically move away from you. They can be a bit closed-off and guarded, and they’re disinterest will manifest itself physically. They’ll position themselves facing away from you, or they won’t look you directly in the eye. However they choose to do it, when you feel like they’re trying to get as far away from you as possible, they are.

Gemini

(May 22nd to June 21st)

They’ll use their friend as a shield. They’re energetic and social, and when they’re too nice to flat out tell you that they’re not interested, they’ll bring their friend to make it virtually impossible for you to make a move. Even if you only wanted to talk, they bring their friend so you don’t get the wrong idea, which is that they see any sort of romantic interest forming for you at all.

Cancer

(June 22nd to July 22nd)

They’ll always say their busy with family obligations. They’ll have their cousin’s birthday dinner or their grandparent’s 50th anniversary party. Whatever it is, they’ll always be spending the majority of their time with the people they know and love, and they won’t invite you to join (if they’re not already lying about their excuse).

Leo

(July 23rd to August 22nd)

They’ll tell you they’re just not ready to date, and then you’ll see them dating someone else a week later. The Leo will make it about themselves so that their disinterest seems like it has nothing to do with you. They’re not actually not ready to date, they’re just telling you that because they don’t want to hurt your feelings, but your feelings will be hurt when you see they’re suddenly ready to date 5 days later, and it’s not with you.

Virgo

(August 23rd to September 22nd)

The Virgo is very methodical about their approach to dating. They’ll ask you for love advice about someone else they’re interested in with hopes you’ll understand they’re not that interested in you. They’re not trying to make it seem like they’re dating a million other people, they just want you to think they see you as more of a friend they can go to for advice than someone they’re looking to be romantically involved with.

Libra

(September 23rd to October 22nd)

They’ll ignore your texts. Libras hate confrontation. They’re too nice to directly say they’re not into you, so they’ll just ignore you with hopes you’ll gradually fade away without getting mad. You’ll see their texts begin to be only one or two words long, and eventually they’ll be gone altogether.

Scorpio

(October 23rd to November 22nd)

A Scorpio isn’t too nice to say they’re not interested. They don’t really have a problem saying it to your face and telling you like it is. They value you honesty and authenticity, and they’ll be as straight-forward with you as humanly possible. You’ll know when a Scorpio isn’t into you, there will be no subtlety or ‘nice-ness’ about it.

Sagittarius

(November 23rd to December 21st)

They’ll tell you they’re leaving the country for an extended period of time. There might be some truth to this as the Sagittarius loves to travel, but whether they’ll be thousands of miles away or not, they don’t want to date you if they’re not asking to keep in touch.

Capricorn

(December 22nd to January 20th)

They’ll always be busy. Whether it’s with work or friends or life in general, they’re not willing to make time for you because they’re just not that into you, and they’re too nice to come out and say it. They’ll make plans with you, but they’ll cancel because of one excuse or another.

Aquarius

(January 21st to February 18th)

They won’t engage in conversation. The Aquarius loves to engage in interesting conversations so if they’re completely unresponsive when you’re talking to them, it’s not because they’re quiet, it’s because they don’t want to have an interesting conversation with you. An Aquarius will talk your head off, so one key sign they’re not into you, is when they won’t say much of anything at all.

Pisces

(February 19th to March 20th)

They’re distant. The Pisces is extremely romantic. They’re compassionate and gentle, and when they’re into you, you’ll know. They’ll seem really distant if they’re not interested. There will be no arm touches, or hands over your shoulder, there might not even be much eye-contact. They’ll seem like they’re trying to get away from you, because they are. Thought Catalog Logo Mark