Nataliia Totka

Can you heal from living without one person by putting another person in your heart, in the hole in your chest?

When your heart breaks, remember that they left for a reason.

I want someone who will hug me and put me back in place; I want a man whose embrace is mine and only mine forever.

Take responsibility for the choices you’ve made.

You don’t stand there like an idiot and think “that’s my soulmate leaving me.” You don’t do that

Go out with your friends. Learn to enjoy yourself again.

How NOT to look back.

I don’t need a lover or a boyfriend. Those come and go and come again.

Love will find you.

Not to sound dramatic but I first felt like falling on the pavement, crushing my head aka going out with flair.

I know that deep in your heart you still have faith, that you still have love to give.

Let’s be grateful for today because we’ve worked hard to get where we are, we are goddamn warriors.

“Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” ― Marcel Proust

I want to be the way I feel, not the way I have to be. I am scared people won’t accept the “me” I hide. I am scared someone very dear to my heart won’t understand me. I am scared of the hate I bestow on myself.

Having your dog jump at you after a long time apart.

Because it is high time to cease all of your waiting. For him to come home, for him to make a move, for him to become a better person, for him to change, for him to magically turn into the guy you want him to be.

The lessons life gives you along the way do not define you.

I want to be seen. But I never want to be defined.