Molly Burford
Writer. Editor. Hufflepuff. Dog person.
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What Happens When You Finally Stop Settling For A Bare Minimum Man
When you finally stop settling for a bare minimum man, you will first mistake his absence as loneliness. Everything in your life will be much quieter. Your phone will stop vibrating as much. You will no longer feel the need to check it for his short replies to the conversations you both initiated and carried…
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How To Deal When His Energy Randomly Shifts
You’ve been seeing and talking to him for a few weeks or maybe even a couple of months, and things are going so well. For starters, you have so much fun together. The chemistry is undeniable. You text and FaceTime daily. You’ve met his friends, and he’s met yours. He’s emotionally supportive and you trust…
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8 Things People Who Became Close With Their Parents In Adulthood Understand
The relationship you have with your parents is one of the most fundamental and impactful relationships you have. For example, if you grew up having a very healthy, stable dynamic with your parents, oftentimes you also feel secure in your other relationships. But if you struggled to see eye to eye with your parents during…
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Things That Will Always Restore Your Energy
Read this when you're feeling worn out and need a serious boost.
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Please Know Your Mental Illness Does Not Make You Difficult To Love
I have borderline personality disorder (BPD), an emotional regulation disorder that makes navigating daily life difficult. It affects every facet of my existence including my relationships, self-image, work, and general functioning. One of the most grueling parts of this diagnosis is that BPD is both highly stigmatized and misunderstood. People with BPD are thought to…
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15 People On The Randomly Absurd Marriage Advice That Actually Helped
Here are 15 people on the absurd and random marriage advice that actually helped their own. 1. Always choose to be kind. Dad said, ‘Be kind even if you’re not feeling it. Maybe especially if you’re not feeling it. semantician 2. Find little ways to bond. My grandfather told me, “‘Never go to bed with dirty dishes…
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4 Reasons Why Letting Go Of Your ‘Type’ Can Help You Find Love
1. You stop limiting yourself. First, the most obvious reason to date outside of your usual type is that you expand your options. You open up your heart to different types of people you probably wouldn’t have considered before if you stuck to your usual list of criteria of what you think you want in…
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7 Of The Best Movies To Watch After A Breakup, According To Reddit
Breakups suck. Movies help.
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The Ugly Truth About Situationships And Why You Should Never Get In One Again
In a dating culture that both thrives on non-commitment as well as our collective fear of dying utterly and completely alone, it only makes sense that situationships have become so common. And honestly, these contradicting ideas have us all absolutely fucked in the head. Just think about it. Situationships are a means of taming loneliness…
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Signs He’s Only Giving You The Bare Minimum (And You Should Move On)
You deserve more than the bare minimum. You deserve genuine interest, effort, and appreciation. Here are some definitive signs he’s only giving you the bare minimum (and that you should definitely move on). Your attraction is based on potential (not who he actually is). When you’re being honest with yourself, you realize that most of…
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7 Signs You’re In A Situationship (And It Won’t Become Something More)
A situationship is considered to be a casual, undefined relationship that can actually be harder to define than you might realize. The reason you may not realize you’re in a situationship, as opposed to the beginning stages of a “real” relationship, is because modern dating culture has normalized not talking about how we feel (and…
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How To Know Each Zodiac Sign Likes You (Based On Their Texts)
Aries: They just tell you they’re into you outright. Aries is probably the boldest of the entire zodiac. They are fiery and barrel headfirst into everything they do. This is especially true when it comes to dating. If they like you, they need to have you. Like, right now. Aries doesn’t believe that slow and…
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This Is The One Question You Need To Ask Yourself To Find Out If He Wants You
If you’re trying to figure out if he wants to be with you, there is only one question you need to ask yourself in order to know: Where is he, and why isn’t it with you? No, seriously. That’s it. Because the way you answer this question will tell you everything you need to know…
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Struggles The ‘Last Single Friend’ Will Relate To On A Spiritual Level
When you’re the “last single friend,” it’s easy to feel stressed about your relationship status, mostly because of how everyone else in your life makes you feel about flying solo. From well-meaning relatives trying to set you up with someone you’re not into every Thanksgiving to constantly getting unsolicited advice about dating apps from friends…
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22 Men Discuss The Biggest Green Flags That Make A Woman ‘Wife Material’
In a world that’s so focused on finding the red flags, it’s easy to forget that green flags are just as important. Here are 22 men sharing the biggest signs a woman is definitely “wife material.” When she shows sincere interest in the things he loves (but without going overboard) When she tries to get…
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The Top 5 Professions Women Should Avoid In A Spouse, According To A Divorce Lawyer
When it comes to red flags in a potential partner, we tend to solely look at their behavior, the things they say and do that could signal they may not be the right person for us. But what about what they do for their career? Because apparently, that’s a thing too! In a now-viral TikTok,…
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The Top Profession Men Should Avoid In A Spouse, According To A Divorce Lawyer
After jettigirl28’s viral TikTok about the top five professions women should avoid in a spouse, users were quick to ask her for the top career paths men should avoid in their spouse. “I debated posting this because I know how bad it’s going to be when people get this answer from me,” she said.
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3 Zodiac Signs Who Won’t Tolerate A Bare Minimum Relationship
Someone only giving you the bare minimum in a relationship will do the absolute least to keep you around. They’ll always show up 45 minutes late, but at least they came around at all. They’ll be insanely “busy” for three weeks at a time, but at least they called you eventually. Their allure depends on…

















