Melisa Ergin
Following my heart and writing about where it takes me.
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Melisa Ergin
Lost Love Is Not Wasted Love
Every person you love in your lifetime has meaning. Every person you have loved entered your life for a reason, whether it was to teach you something or help you through something, or simply be there when you had no one else. No one you love is irrelevant.
Date Someone Who Always Makes You Smile
The person who will put a smile on your face each and every day. That’s the person worth holding out for.
Date Someone Who You Never Have To Chase
Date someone who makes you feel wanted.
Why Your Twenties Are Actually The Best Years Of Your Life
Yes, your twenties are weird, but it’s that weirdness that makes them amazing. It’s the highs and lows that make them great.
My Life Is Nothing Like A Fairy Tale, And I Couldn’t Be Happier
Life isn’t filled with magical moments, and no one’s life is perfect. We all have our hurdles and we all have our battles. But that’s what makes life worth living.
To All The Selfless Women, Sometimes You Must Love Yourself First
We live in a generation full of women who don’t know how to love themselves. Women who are beautiful, clever and capable, but have fallen to the deception and lies that society has engrained so deeply into our minds that we don’t even realize it’s there.
I Don’t Want To Run When It Comes To You
I’m sick of building walls that are impenetrable. These walls were built to protect me. But I don’t want to be protected when it comes to you.
This Is Our Final Goodbye
All good things must come to an end, and this is ours.
Pakistani Women Are Asking Men To Beat Them, And Here’s Why
UN Women Pakistan’s new ‘#BeatMe’ campaign “brings an unconventional twist to the advocacy on women’s rights.” It aims to inspire women and reaffirm the idea that they are stronger than society leads them to believe.
16 People Share The Worst Relationship Advice They’ve Ever Been Given
“Have a baby. It’ll save your relationship.”
8 Beautiful Junot Diaz Quotes On Life And Love
“The half-life of love is forever.”
8 Of The Greatest Leonard Cohen Songs You Should Listen To Right Now
“There is a crack in everything, that is how the light gets in.” RIP Leonard Cohen.
The 7 Most Powerful And Heart-Breaking Quotes From Hillary Clinton’s Concession Speech
“To all of the little girls who are watching this, never doubt that you are valuable and powerful and deserving of every change and opportunity in the world to pursue and achieve your dreams.”
12 Of The Most Devastating Tweets From Women Who Cannot Believe That Donald Trump Won
“People ask why women don’t report sexual assault. You got your answer: a man can have double digit accusers & still be elected President.” – @LizStrand
Our Fight Does Not End With The Election Of Donald Trump
What’s even more disheartening is that as the final votes were counted, it became apparent that the people had elected Hillary Clinton, but the system elected Donald Trump.
My America: The Series Everyone Should Watch Before The Election Tomorrow
It’s almost here. You can feel it when you walk down the streets. Heart rates are quickening and tensions are rising, and everyone is wondering the same thing. Who will win? What will it mean for America?
5 Jesse Williams Quotes On Race And Politics That Will Make You Fall In Love With Him
“The burden of the brutalized is not to comfort the bystander.”
I’m Not ‘Too Sensitive,’ You’re Just A Dick
I don’t expect too much. I just expect what’s fair.
I don’t want you to be a superhero. I just want you to be human.