Mark Rosenfeld

You wouldn’t date a guy who doesn’t impress you, and it’s only reasonable to say it goes both ways.

When a guy is giving you signs of both interest and disinterest, it’s the signs of disinterest that are the more believable.

Sitting around complaining about dating is about as useful to fixing the problem as complaining about how your sedentary lifestyle led to diabetes.

But these 9 words are automatic attraction killers for guys. Even good guys.

More importantly, why is it when you go out, the only guys who talk to you are the drunks and the creepers?

There’s a fantasy across society that ‘love and relationships’ is the one area of life where you can achieve amazing results, without putting in any effort.

So once he starts taking off your clothes and unwrapping the goddess, don’t ruin his fantasy for him.

By picking up the phone, you begin to establish many healthy relationship patterns. Communication. Time. Mutual Investment.

A guy pulling away can mean any number of things – and not necessarily that your relationship is in turmoil.

It’s no secret that men are visual creatures, and getting the attention of the right one begins the moment your face pops up on his screen.

Issues of control always stem from an emotional imbalance, whether it be insecurity, an inability to foster self-love, or an unhealthy need for perfection.

The more narcissistic a man, the more he attracts giving, empathic women, who feel good seeing the needs of those around them met.

Women underestimate a man’s interest, while men overestimate a woman’s.

He wasn’t head over heels smitten by you, then (after sex) thought to himself, “You know what? I’m no longer interested because she slept with me so soon”.

If you believe you fit the low registering/active pattern, a two-pronged approach to managing your lifestyle is best.

What is it that really separates “a bit of fun” from “girlfriend material”?

It’s passionate, exciting, and the sex is incredible. But if you’re honest, the dating side – getting to know one another, being romantic and vulnerable – is very much lacking.

You won’t ever have to think “if only I..”