22 Men And Women Share The One Kinky Fetish That Makes Them Cum Instantly

1. Spanking

Spanking. I never understood why you’d want to get hit. I didn’t understand how that could be pleasurable at all. My boyfriend and I tried it playfully once and we both loved it. Now, it’s a huge turn on.

—SilverQuill828

2. Choking

Choking. It always just seemed stupid and dangerous. But holy shit, it’s so hot.

—StrangerSkies

3. Rough BDSM

Rough play/BDSM. Was never into it, never could imagine hitting a girl.

But there’s something to be said, with a consenting partner OBVIOUSLY, for how it feels to slap someone while really putting it to her.

And putting a willing partner over your lap and spanking her hard? I almost jizzed in my pants last time.

—fnordcircle

4. Dominating Men

Dominating…as a female I feel not many straight men are into being a sub, but it’s the best sex I’ve ever had. I love being in charge!

—miradox

5. “Daddy”

On the rare occasion I heard another woman call her boy friend Daddy, it would always weird me out. I would ask, “Why?” in my head. Now, whenever my girl friend says it, I get the biggest fucking mind boner. I don’t know it just really gets me.

—KidVicous

6. Rape Fantasy

Rape fetish. My girlfriend is obsessed with it. We sat down and discussed it one night and once I found out it was all about the lack of control (in her words, I want to be used as a toy) I was keen to try it out.

So, a few years later I’m pleased to say that I am a pretty good goddamn rapist. I never thought I’d like slapping a woman around before sodomizing them but, well, here we are. It’s a monthly thing though and we go into a lot of planning. I usually either hide in the house and jump her when she gets home or I’ll pretend to “force” my way into the house. She sometimes goes shopping for me and buys me new balaclavas and gloves. And before anyone asks, we have code words for various things like: back off this is too intense (raspberries) and go harder (you’re a fucking pussy). So far we have never used the word raspberries…

—Accidental_Buttsex

7. Rimming

Rimming. I thought it was gross until I tried it.

As long as your partner maintains good basic hygiene, and takes a shower beforehand and washes it out well, I feel that it’s no more “germy” than any other orifice on the human animal.

That being said, I now fucking love eating ass.

—TheGoodJudgeHolden

8. Rope Play

Rope. Specifically kinbaku and torture rope. I got into it thinking I’d only really be interested in learning bedroom ties, e.g. restraints for wrists and ankles to the bed or whatever, for sex, and maybe learn more shibari (fancy decorative ties, not really intended to hurt, sometimes can be made to feel good, but aesthetics come first).

But. I got together with a masochist, and we hit it off… and I quickly learned that it was fun as fuck to have that S/M dynamic with her.

Initially, I used impact toys, like floggers and paddles, but I found rope to be way more versatile. These days, I’ll usually put her in a partial suspension involving one or two torture ties, and then beat her with canes until she gets this “if you don’t fuck me right now, I’m going to murder you and fuck your corpse” look. I prefer to be alive for the sex.

—one_here

9. Stepsister Fantasy

Stepsister porn. They’re all so horribly acted, but something about the sheer awkwardness turns me on. The girls in stepsister pornos are always pretty average-looking but with a nice butt too. Just my type.

—nofuturept3

10. More “Daddy”