27 Orally Obsessed Women Share Exactly Why They Find Giving Blowjobs Soooo Hot
"If it's a dick that I really find attractive, attached to a guy who knows what he's doing I want to suck it for hours. Even longer if it's a guy who's vocal and shows the pleasure he's receiving through squirms and moans and shudders."
By Lisa Woods
1. Obsessed But They Have To Deserve It
I haven’t been in LTRs in a few years and I was celibate for quite a few years and I don’t know what happened, maybe it was porn, and the scarcity of contact with a penis that I really got into blow jobs. I have always been into them when I was younger and in relationships, but nowadays, I am pretty obsessed…in the past couple of years, when I give them to a partner, and in the few times I have tried casual sex, I often get the flustered “OMG it’s the best I have ever had.” At the same time, I am really picky about dating and I am not actually into FWBs. I want someone who is the “whole package”, I don’t like doing this to just random people, it has to feel like they deserve it.
2. It’s So Rewarding
For me, I just love making a guy squirm, seeing the faces he makes, and hearing the things he says. I get no real physical pleasure from doing it, but the experience is so rewarding. I love it. Last time the boy was like squirming and his legs like squeezed up against me and he kept looking up saying “that’s so good” and things like that, and grabbing my hair and stuff. All of that just makes it SO worth it. I never thought I would like giving head, but I love love love it.
3. The Feeling
Feeling it get hard in my mouth is awesome :)
4. It’s Satisfying
There’s something so satisfying about licking and sucking him to a fully erect state.
5. “It’s My Thing”
Love giving blow jobs because it’s like my thing. I love the noises they make and how their legs shake and swallowing. Just makes me feel dirty/sexy… and the fact most guys have said they’ve ‘”ever had a blow job like that in their life” makes me feel good.
6. This Is How I Do It
Oh god this is gonna sound awful but if i’m chatting to a guy I always end up saying this if it the conversation gets ‘dirty’…but this is also genuinely exactly how I give head.
“So you’ll be lying down and I slowly kiss down your neck going lower and lower, take your boxers off and start gliding my tounge up and down until I let you enter my mouth.I start slowly sucking until the tip of my tongue reaches your tip and I then do a swirling motion then spit on your cock to make it wetter and wetter. I then start sucking going from slow to fast motions going deeper and deeper.. using my tongue and my entire mouth i carry on going faster and faster continuing the swirling motions until you think you can’t take it anymore I’ll jump on your cock and ride it, grinding it slow then fast with my tits bouncing up and down in your face. you suck my nipples then gently bite them whilst i’m riding your cock ANd just when you’re about to cum you’ll pull out and i’ll jump off you role over on my back and you;ll be knelt over me your cock throbbing for me and i’ll use my hand to finish you off all over my chest and face”
that’ll do ;)
7. He Had To Pull Me Off Him
I love knowing that I’m giving intense pleasure. The moans, the tensing of his legs, just UMPH.
Apparently I’m kinda awesome at it too, because I’ve gotten ‘that was the best I’ve ever had’ on many occasions, have been told my mouth sent them to nirvana, and my most recent had to pull me off because I was gonna ‘kill’ him if didn’t stop.
I live to hear those things.
8. It’s All About Their Reaction
For me it’s 95% about knowing I’m affecting him. About hearing him, feeling, being touched, getting that little circle of ‘Your excitement makes me more excited to do it’ going.
That means that if a guy is shitty at receiving head – no response, doesn’t engage with me – it’s about as exciting as licking a doorknob.
9. Loves The Control
There’s something that seems so submissive about it, but in reality, you’re the one in control of his pleasure (give or take some hair pulling). There’s always a very specific sigh I get about 5 seconds in where I can tell he has relaxed and is in full on pleasure mode and it’s all because of me. That is such a good feeling. God, I love blowjobs.
10. It Gets Me So Wet
I love to give a nice and long bj. Hearing the moans, seeing him squirm. It makes me so wet it’s ridiculous. I would give more bjs if I had the opportunity to my boyfriend. But we both work a lot.
11. His Reactions Make Me Feel Sooo Sexy
Giving makes me feel super sexy. I like having the control but also love the feeling of submission I get from giving. I can’t really decide what my favorite part is. On a purely physical level, I love the feeling of his head in my mouth; it just feels nice. It’s fun to suck and run my tongue over. But I also love his little whimper of “Oh fuck, baby, I’m gonna cum.” It’s such a turn on and I love watching him squirm when I tell him he’s not allowed to cum yet. I really just love going down on him.
12. Vocal Guys Are The Best
I crave having his dick in my mouth. And I enjoy treating him like a king. I find it more pleasurable than him performing oral on me. He doesn’t complain haha. I also enjoy making him moan. My guy is very vocal so when I get him going it can be fun. I also love the taste of his cum. So that’s a bonus to me.
13. Such A Massive Turn On
For me it’s a massive turn on, knowing the reason he is squirming and moaning is because of what I’m doing. I love to lick/suck/fondle his balls too, teasing him right up to the edge. My favourite part is feeling his cock twitch in my mouth when he’s trying so so hard not to come.
14. I Might Enjoy It Even More Than He Does
I’m pretty sure I enjoy giving head just as much, if not more than my bf like receiving it. I’m not sure what it is about him, but I’ve never enjoyed giving oral as much as I do with him. First of all, he has a very nice-looking, large but not too large dick that he always keeps clean, which is a plus. I love feeling it get hard in my mouth, I love licking his shaft and balls while I deep throat, I love really sucking on the tip and I love the way he looks at me while I’m going at it. We are always giggling and smiling and having fun, which is probably my favorite part. The fact that he lets me swallow is a huge plus too.
15. It’s Completely Overwhelming
Oh man, few things make me wetter than giving oral to a guy. Dunno that I can pinpoint any “favourite” thing about it, though. There’s just so much going on that it can be almost overwhelming. The musky scent, the taste of skin, the texture differences between shaft and head, the noises they make (especially the whimpering and pleading), the absolute control you have over them, the list goes on. And few things rub your ego quite like having someone stop you because they can’t speak otherwise to tell you that you’re the best they’ve ever had. I don’t even need sex a lot of the time if my guy is up for getting blown.
16. Her Signature Move
I love watching his face and all the moans he can’t contain! My favourite part though is after he’s come and I continue a little longer, then finish by licking the his whole length while looking him straight in the eyes. It drives him wild!
17. I Love His Reaction To Me Being Turned On By It
I generally like, if not love giving blowjobs. It’s fun, I’m pretty good at it, I like the way he tastes/smells, and it turns me on. Sometimes after the blow job, my boyfriend runs his finger along my slit and gets a big, dumb smile on his face once he realizes that giving him head actually made me wet. Penises are generally fun for me – they change shape and size when you touch them, they smell and taste good, the feel nice inside me etc…
18. Some Days…I Crave It
I love it when I’m in the mood. I have no idea why but there are some days where I’m actually craving the feel of cock in my mouth and I basically need to persuade my boyfriend to let me do it. I think it’s partially to do with his scent that he emits during sex but also possibly to do with the fact that I’ve watched an insane amount of porn.
19. “I Can Orgasm While Doing It”
I enjoy it a lot, more so than receiving oral. Its a huge turn on and I can orgasm while doing it. I love pleasuring someone else, taking my time, learning all their little buttons. And the submissive side of me really likes being on my knees.
20. Sometimes I Just Interrupt And Unzip Him
I love giving them. I just love the feel of it in my mouth and i love teasing him.
I always just stroke him and kiss his penis head and give little licks. After a minute, he is begging and trying to push my head down.
Once I am actually sucking, I love to hear him make little sounds and moan and look at him in the eyes. So sexy.
I love it so much my boyfriend will be talking about something (non sexual) and I will just unzip his pants and go to town. Then he will be like umm, what was I saying? Sometimes he gets mad because he was talking. hah
I also got him a tenga egg the other day and I gave him a hand job with it. He loved it! He said it felt like he was inside of me, but obviously not actually. He definitely recommends it to other guys.
21. He Tastes Yummy
At first it was awkward because of the gag reflex but the more I did it the more that went away. I love giving oral. I love how he sucks in his breath when I move my tongue a certain way. Or when he’s telling me not to stop . My favorite time to do it is when he’s doing something. Like talking on the phone or playing games. I love distracting him and he tastes yummy.
22. “God, It’s Been Too Long”
If it’s a dick that I really find attractive, attached to a guy who knows what he’s doing in that department (grooming, diet for the sake of cum taste, etc), I want to suck it for hours. Even longer if it’s a guy who’s vocal and shows the pleasure he’s receiving through squirms and moans and shudders.
Basically, if his cum doesn’t taste gross and if he doesn’t just sit there breathing hard, I’m much more excited to go down. A man who shows reactions is the sexiest man ever, in my books. God, it’s been too long.
23. Don’t Forget Balls Though
Balls are fun. I had an ex that didn’t like having his balls touched at all and it was the most depressing thing in the world for me.
24. Fancy Technique
Personally, I absolutely LOVE oral sex. I have fun with it. I kiss it, nuzzle the base, rub my breasts against it, stroke the balls, lightly suck them, blow on the head, and generally just adore it. Its the enthusiasm that I put in to my blow jobs that make them fun. But it also sounds like he’s not very responsive. Ask him if he’ll give you a little more feed back. Also, I find a technique that works well: flatten your hand against his base, with your index and thumb circling his base. Deep throat, or as deep as you can go, and as you lift your mouth simultaneously raise your hand, circling the rest of your fingers as your hand raises. Its like combining an BJ and HJ into one. My man LOVES this, and it gets him there much faster than either on their own.
25. “You’ve Got To Worship The Dick”
Blowjobs are part physical, part psychological. The real appeal doesn’t come from the physicality of it for me, but for the fact that I know the sight of me with my mouth wrapped around his dick is something he’ll have a mental snapshot of forever. Pretty sexy, right?
So the key for me is really getting into it. I love driving him crazy and making him make those little sounds of approval while I blow him. It becomes a game where I’m aiming to please, so with each partner I make sure to tell them to let me know when they like it.
Additionally, I’ve got to have a positive attitude about it. I can’t feel like I’m OBLIGATED to blow him. When I go down on my manfriend, I really want to, and I suck that thing like I’m on The Price is Right and I want to win the fucking convertible. You’ve got to worship the dick. That’s all I’m sayin’.
26. Like A Different Kind Of Deep Kissing
I ask/beg to do it. It drives me crazy even fantasizing about it. My vulva gets puffy and wet from giving head. Every time. It gives me a similar sensation I get from deep kissing. I think I have an oral fixation.
27. Dirty And Submissive
I love giving my man head. I love how in control I feel if he is laying on the bed, or how he can make me feel dirty and submissive if I’m on my knees. Giving my man a 5 star blowy is the fastest way to get me wet and ready for him. And, once I get him to come in my mouth or on my tits, he eats me out and lasts forever for me. Totally worth the pleasure I know he gets.