21 People Share Why Sleeping With An Ex Is Never, Ever A Good Idea (EVER!) "It's never how it was before." By Lisa Woods Updated 9 years ago, March 8, 2016 1. You Want Them Again 2. You Never Know What They’ve Been Up To 3. The Feelings Are Always Mixed 4. If You’re Still In Love It’s Nothing But Pain 5. You Start To Feel Like Their “Yours” Again 6. It’s Always “Up In The Air” 7. It Brings Out The Worst In You 8. Because You End Up Disappointed In Yourself 9. Because It’s Just Not How It Was 10. It Can Leave You Empty 11. Because It Can Hurt Others Too 12. Because Sex And Love Can Get So Confused 13. Because It Gets Weird 14. You Can Feel Used And Like You’re Using Someone You Loved Once 15. You Knew You’d Feel Terrible Afterward And Now You Do 16. 90% Of The Time You Might Feel Used 17. You Never Know What Feelings Will Come Up 18. Because You Can’t Make Them Love You Again 19. It Keeps You From Moving On 20. You Won’t Know What You Feel 21. Because It’s One-Sided Now