Lindsay Tigar

Our zodiac sign can shape who we are, what we think, and what makes us happy. It can also indicate what type of career we would excel in

I’ve been on dates when men who ask if I’ll spread my legs under the table so they can look under … an hour after we’ve met. I went on six incredible dates with a guy, only to tell me he wasn’t interested in “anything serious.” And then he started dating some other girl a few weeks later.

As much as it discourages me to admit, I haven’t had much luck dating in my 20s, but I’ve learned so much about myself, about men, about what I want, about (the lack of) romance, and about what I hope for my future.

If you’re not sure if you’ve had an orgasm, you haven’t. — and ahem, owned — your sexuality, it’s about time you figured it out.

Dear Future Husband: 1. I know you exist. Somewhere out in this mad city or this crazy country or this beautifully ridiculous world, I know you exist.

Some are a little unrealistic, some are must-haves, and others will probably pop up along the way…

He’s gone from my prince charming and hero to my drinking buddy and unofficial financial advisor, but through it all, he’s always held a piece of my heart.

From being my personal cheerleader to my European drinking buddy, I’m amazed every single day by the strength, love and wit that my mom effortlessly brings to my world. If you’re lucky like me, your mom holds a pretty big piece of your heart and and a pretty big chunk of data in your phone plan.

Dear boy…

And for the first time, in a very long time, I felt so comfortable, so happy, so secure in my own skin, I impressed myself.

It might be because it’s one of the most complicated, frustrating, irritating and yet completely necessary parts of life!

I assumed our post-breakup sex was a one-off that we both needed to seal the end of a relationship that had become so tainted it couldn’t last, but I was wrong. Over the course of the next two years, I continued to sleep on-and-off with my ex.

I’d make the sex spontaneous rather than drunken, and I’d see if we both rose to the challenge together.