Lance Pauker & Stephanie Karina

Per usual, we’re thrilled to dish up your weekly helping of #veryimportant Internet dating advice.

This week your questions centered around things like defining relationships, breaking up whilst in a not-a-relationship, and making moves on people you kinda lost contact with.

This week, your questions explored earth-shattering topics like post hook-up etiquette, guilty pleasure TV, DTRing, and seducing married men.

Each week, your questions give us hope that love is alive and well somewhere in the world! Keep on doing what y’all do — falling for people at the gym, eating your vegetables, scheming to move out of the Friendzone (ugh, the Friendzone!)

This week’s edition of our bag of mail features a gym flirting question that’s the beginning of every human’s fantasy, as well as…

Feelings are difficult to express. Potential rejection is scary. Emotional vulnerability is icky. Given this week’s questions, y’all seemed particularly interested in exploring these topics.

This week, your questions centered around relationship/hookup pickles (surprise), which were all were chosen because they seemed like they’d be decent plots to rom-coms and/or critically acclaimed indie flicks starring Greta Gerwig.

Email us more questions, comments, or selfies! No one has emailed a selfie, and we are sorely disappointed.

Welcome critters, to this week’s edition of the early 20s mailbag.

Like anything worth having, relationships and friendships are both difficult to develop and to maintain. Your questions this week exemplified that.

For all that and more, we’ve got you covered.

Read on if you want to discover the life-altering answers to these questions and more!

You asked, and we answered.

Lucky for you, it’s 2014, and the Internet exists to provide you with all of the answers you need regarding dating, romance, and #life.