Kovie Biakolo

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Having Nothing To Say

I think expressing one’s self is very important. But I also think the minute we feel the need to express ourselves simply because we can, rather than because we have something of value to say is how we abuse and overuse talking.

There Is No Perfect Moment

But the truth is we wait for perfect moments because we don’t think that we are enough in the moments that we have.

How We Deal With Change

And maybe we don’t do ourselves any favors by trying to hold onto what we think we know. Because what we think we know is also always changing too.

What Is Freedom?

“Freedom is a means to an end, not an end in and of itself. When you have no end and make freedom an ultimate goal, anything goes.”

Why I Don’t Have A Best Friend

And to me, “best friend” insinuates that the friendship is some sort of competition and that the prize of winning is owning someone and being owned by someone.