Kirstie Taylor
Dating + Relationship Writer & Coach
Be Patient With The Process Of Understanding Yourself
Like any blossoming of a great thing, this endeavor requires patience on your part—loving, tender patience for yourself on this path of self-discovery.
You’re Not Lost, You’re On Your Hero’s Journey
This journey isn’t about anyone else’s expectations but your own. This journey isn’t about anyone’s happiness but yours.
If Not Now, Then When?
There will never be a “perfect time.” It simply does not exist.
It’s Totally Okay If You’re Not Looking For Commitment
You are not slutty. You are not promiscuous. You are doing nothing wrong.
How To Go Back To Being ‘Just Friends’ When You Still Miss Them
Feeling this way, though, how can you be just friends? When all you want to do is reach out and hold their hand?
Is Your Casual Relationship Holding You Back From Finding Love?
Love is a beautiful thing when we come across it.
15 Ways To Distract Your Mind When You Can’t Stop Thinking About The Past
It’s easy to get stuck in the past. Our minds work funnily: they seem to think that if we give something enough attention, it’ll either give us the answer or somehow makes us feel better.
How To Stop Projecting Your Insecurities Onto Others
These are all common cases of projection. Projecting is when you believe something about the world and then start to see it in other people.
Advice To My Younger Self On Dating the Bad Boy
You’re not crazy for getting upset he never called you when he promised.
6 Blatant Lies Dieting Culture Tells Us (And How To Reframe Them)
Every woman’s body is beautiful and unique in its own way. There’s not one standard of beauty in this world.
To All The Friends I Took For Granted
I wish I had called. I wish I had kept in touch.
It’s Not You, It’s My Insecurities
Getting caught up in a relationship is so easy — before you know it, months have passed since you saw your friends.
22 Little But Life-Changing Things You Learn After A Year Hiatus From Dating
You get to embark on the journey of finding, or re-finding, hobbies that you love.
Be The Person Who Refuses To Give Up
The path to success is never easy — not for anyone. So let’s finally let go of that notion, because if you buy into that idea, you’ll never achieve anything.
How Do You Grieve An Addict?
How does one grieve a person who is still here? Where are the words for losing someone that’s still alive?
My Best Friend Is Gay — He’s Not My Gay Best Friend
If we choose to label people, we are setting them into narrow constraints.
What A Papaya Farmer Taught Me About Small Talk
Does small talk really help us get to know the person?
Keep Your Pedestal — I Don’t Want To Be Put On It
Putting someone on a pedestal is making them into this grandiose idea of a person.