God and Man

10 Uncomfortable Signs You Are Exactly Where You Need To Be

You don't have FOMO

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God and Man

1. You don’t have FOMO.

Looking through snap stories envious is a thing in the past. You are completely content just staying in with wine on a Friday night. Sometimes you prefer it.

2. You don’t have too many friends but you have ones that matter.

Over the years it might have felt like you’ve lost friends but what you really gained was the friends who will be with you on your wedding day and every milestone after.

3. You look forward to the day ahead of you.

You don’t wake up with questions of where are you going. You’re there.

4. You’re really proud of yourself.

You think back to where you were. The person you used to be. And you pat yourself on the back for doing what you are doing.

5. You truly value and appreciate your parents.

Parents you used to resent and fight with have finally become your best friends.

6. You’ve stopped apologizing for being yourself.

You own the shit out of who you are and people can take it or leave it.

7. You don’t criticize your reflection but admire it.

In the past, you might have analyzed love handles or five pounds you wish you should have lost or a mark you couldn’t stand, now you like who you are and it’s changed your relationships.

8. Your goals don’t scare you but motivate you.

There might have been a time where you were fucking clueless and lost and couldn’t pull it together. But you see what you’ve done and it motivates you to do more.

9. You’ve learned to value the moment.

You aren’t constantly looking at your phone or thinking about the future or resenting the past. You value everything right now.

10. You don’t fear telling people you love them.

If you love someone you tell them straight up and you feel pretty damn good about it. [tc-mark]


About the author

Kirsten Corley

Writer living in Hoboken, NJ with my 2 dogs.

“Your new life is going to cost you your old one. It’s going to cost you your comfort zone and your sense of direction. It’s going to cost you relationships and friends. It’s going to cost you being liked, and understood. But it doesn’t matter. Because the people who are meant for you are going to meet you on the other side, and you’re going to build a new comfort zone around the things that actually move you forward. Instead of liked, you’re going to be loved. Instead of understood, you’re going to be seen. All you’re going to lose is what was built for a person you no longer are.” Brianna Wiest, The Mountain Is You