Kelsey Lauren

You make me laugh until my stomach aches and my snorting makes you laugh even harder. With you I feel like even the most inconvenient of moments are not only tolerable , but easy to get through because we do it together. You’re my teammate, my partner in crime, safety net and best friend.

You can’t help but smile at the memories you made in those four years. Four years that felt more like 10 years. Crazy how four years now feels like four months.

The good man, when given the opportunity, will remember even the tiniest details about you. A good man will be honest about his intentions, he’ll put in the work and effort to be a part of your life and he’ll try to win over your affections without any games.

Talk. You will be shocked to see how much better you feel when you simply empty your mind onto someone’s lap. Hearing other people’s take on what you’re thinking is a huge help. They will likely be able to help you think clearly again. Even the comforting thought that you have people to open up to and support you is helpful enough.

He’s your favorite book. A book you’ve read countless times, he never bores you. Somehow each time you read him, you catch another detail you overlooked before. He’s an intellectual. You know you’ve just barely scratched the surface with him.

They remind us of how many people are wishing for something, are longing for answers, are praying for an outcome.

Let’s swap texts for messy, hand written letters.

Like squeezing the last bit of juice out of a lemon, we knew that closing our eyes meant the day was done. We knew there was always tomorrow.

It’s like when you go into work in a bad mood, ever notice that even the tiniest things are going wrong? Increasingly angering your already bad mood? Well that’s because your thoughts are energy. Everything is energy.

You are meant for someone who recognizes how amazing you are immediately and decides you are worth the effort and cherishes having you in their life. Someone who recognizes that they would be an absolute fool to ever let you walk out the door.

You’re just a woman with big dreams and no plans.
You’re just a woman with the entire world in her hands.

When you’re a thinker, you are capable of more than you know. There is creativity seeping through each swirling thought and each day dream. The trick is to reign in the creativity before it passes by.

What’s vital to remember is that we don’t know how much of it we have. We could have countless tomorrow’s ahead or just one. If you knew, would you change anything ? Would you do anything differently?

“I met my fiance eleven years ago while I was on summer vacation. I was visiting family out East at the time and he happened to be doing the same.”

Why do we mistake emotion, kindness, soft natured characteristic for weakness?

Do you understand the magnitude of just how crucial doing this job the best way that you can is?

And just like with relationships, you should never settle with friendships that aren’t right for you. At the end of the day it comes down to how these people are making you feel, is their energy a positive influence or are they trying to bring you down?

Don’t settle with a guy who treats you like you’re an option, one of many other options to chose from. Don’t settle with a guy who can’t remember the little, but important things that make you who you are.