Kayla Phillip

Today I wanted to get over you. Your name was the first thing that greeted my mind when I opened my eyes. I then took a shower to drown out all the traces of your touch.

I know you think that if you hold out a little longer, he’ll change his mind. But he won’t. And that’s okay because he’s not the one for you. 

It wasn’t until recently that I realized why I was attracted to guys who weren’t vocal about their emotions or are affectionate. The answer was because that’s how my parents were.

Stop waiting.

It’s okay to block someone if it will help you to move on. It doesn’t matter what your ex is doing because that’s no longer your concern.

Personally I don’t think that you need to ask the other person for closure. The answer you’re looking for is right in front of you. 

Do you ever revisit the graveyards you build? Does my name ever haunt your soul late at night when you’re left alone to lay with your decisions?  

The highs, the lows, the ups, and the downs are all worth it if I can have eternity with someone.

For 7 years we played tug of war for my love and I was tired of letting you win. My heart couldn’t hold the weight anymore. My feet grew weak from chasing after you 

So what exactly seems to be the problem??

The longer you prolong this process is the deeper you’ll be in it making it difficult to get out of. 

Being single does not have to be a bad thing. It doesn’t make you undesirable nor do you need it to be whole. As beautiful as relationships may be, they don’t have to be a priority.