Katja Bart
“Oh no, what have I done” is the story of my life.
Just So You Know, I Forgive You
It’s okay. I’m letting go of that now.
I’m Still Learning How To Lean Into Hope
They call it “disaster preparedness.” The coping mechanism by which you imagine the worst possible scenario in order to brace yourself for the fallout.
This Is What Kind Of Gal She Is, Based On The Perfume She Wears
Anything from Lush: She cares about animal rights and fair trade. She also has a remarkable tolerance threshold.
This Is What Kind Of Guy He Is, Based On His Cologne
Lynx/Axe body spray: He’s a hipster. Or he’s 17.
How To Let Someone Know You’re Not Into Them (Without Ghosting)
The shortest path between two places, as my GPS likes to tell me every time I get it out of the glovebox, is a straight line.
40 Little Things That Are Actually Better Than Revenge
Nothing else will stand in your way.
I’m Finally Accepting That We Are No Longer In Each Other’s Lives
The day I started to accept that we are no longer in each other’s lives, I also accepted that we didn’t want the same things.
This Is How I Let Go Of Being The Girl Who Was ‘One Of The Guys’
It may seem obvious to some of you, but too many times people use the excuse of “we’re just too different” and “it’s like we’re different species” to justify some pretty awful behavior.
25 Things I Learned After Living Abroad Alone
If you stay in a place for more than a week, you better learn a thing or two about local customs.
This Is Why ‘Love Yourself First’ Is Shitty Advice
Too often, “showing your most authentic self” and “loving yourself”seems to translate to “act normal.”
This Is Why Traditional Dating Advice Will Never Work For Someone With Anxiety
Anxiety is a monster that hijacks my brain – it makes me angry, hostile, and very, very paranoid.
This Is What Falling Out Of Love Really Is, Because It’s Not Just Dating Someone New
We are breaking up with the idea that the relationship was ‘perfect’ which we had inside our heads.