Justin DeMarco

Obviously, a person should be judged on his or her performance and relationships shouldn’t be a factor. However, it’s hard to tell what someone’s performance would be if they’re not given an opportunity either way.

Treat me like a person. I’m not “blonde girl.” I’m not “fat guy.” And I certainly don’t appreciate it when you don’t make eye contact with me when we’re speaking. I’m a person. I can contribute to the company. Give me a chance.

In New York: “I’m stuck at work” means the person is actually swamped with work. In L.A.: “I’m stuck at work” means the person doesn’t want to see you.

What have I learned from these experiences over the past few years? If you have a vision for your life, don’t ignore it. It won’t just up and leave you alone.

How much can I actually do? The answer is much more complicated, but it’s also quite simple: more.

We get a flat tire? Oh, call AAA! Your headlight is out? Jiffy Lube is only a couple of blocks away. Why won’t these Christmas lights work? I guess I better throw them away and buy a new strand.

The first few visits were fine. She clearly was frustrated and didn’t adjust well to her new residence, asking me, “Can you take me home with you?” at the end of each visit.