Jordan Lueder
Writing my way through life, one word at a time.
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Jordan Lueder
Every Useful Thing My Therapist Has Ever Told Me
You don’t have to end up like your parents.
6 Things We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About Being Emotionally Abused
Just because you don’t have the marks to prove it doesn’t mean you didn’t suffer through abuse.
Goodbye And Good Riddance 2018
Not every year brings about good change. Not every year is going to be one to remember. Not every year is full of accomplishing goals and finding yourself.
If You Can’t Handle All Of Me, You Don’t Get Any Of Me
You don’t get to take one part of me and leave the rest behind.
A Welcome Back Letter To My Depression
Don’t worry, I see you.
You’re Not Crazy, He’s Emotionally Toxic, And Here Are 10 Ways To Be Sure
He doesn’t focus his attention on you when you’re together.
Here’s What Therapy Is Actually Like, Because It’s Not Just Laying On A Couch Crying To A Stranger
It’s turning wounds into scars and knowing that it’s okay to have marks on your skin, showing all that you’ve been through.
A Story About What Life Looks Like After College
Then, you will want to change again.
Everything You Need To Know About Love, Based On Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type
ESTJ: Love will cause you to slow down and think about your significant other.
I Will No Longer Be Needy When It Comes To Love
I understand that relationships take work, but this work should consist of compromise—not the compromise of your self-worth.
Now That We Are Over, Here Is A Poem Of All That Was Left Unsaid
Sometimes, you touched me a little too rough.
This Is The Honest Truth About Why They Can’t Get Over You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Aries: They can’t get over you, because you brought passion into their life that could never be replaced.
This Is How You’ll Lose The ‘Too Much’ Girl Once And For All
You will have lost her and you will feel her “too much” taken away in all aspects of your life. You won’t even know how you managed before her.
This Is What You Should Have Learned This Summer, Based On Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type
ENTJ: You should have learned that you don’t have to constantly be achieving success in order to be happy and the real joy in life is found in the littles things, like the smell of blooming flowers and the feeling of waves brushing up against your skin.
30 One-Sentence Reminders For Anyone Who Just Got Ghosted
Know your worth and realize that you don’t need someone who doesn’t.
How To Stop Giving A Damn What Other People Think
Not giving a damn about what other people think means to give a damn what you think. It means acknowledging your own feelings and placing worth on them, instead of wondering so much about what others feel—which you can never quite determine anyway.
I Can’t Keep Fighting For You
I love you. I love you. I love you.
How To Accept Your Depression In The Summertime
The sadness won’t last forever. Yes, there will always be waves. Even though there are times we feel utterly helpless and confused and hurt, there will also be the times we feel like we have made it.