John Alex Clark

If you’ve been single for a long time, you’ll be skilled at being independent. This means you’re well used to doing things by yourself at this stage. It means you won’t be relying on your partner for every single thing you do.

When we like/love someone, our natural inbuilt response is to try and get the attention of that person in order to create a gateway to bring them into our lives. You want the guy’s heart – not his eyes for a few moments.

The pain of regret is WORSE than the pain of rejection. When you look at it like this, it should make what you need to do right now clearer.

No matter who a person goes out with, there will always be some aspects of that other person that they don’t like.

It is a trick that I discovered myself. By pure accident. And it is capable of creating the type of chemistry between two people that will in time lead to love.

Sticking in a woman’s mind is a key way to making that woman fall in love with you. A woman can’t fall in love with you if she never thinks about you.

If you are genuinely in two minds as to whether you should give up on a guy or not and not sure what to do, it’s important to understand the psychology of what is going on in your mind right now in order to make the right decision.

Some people think you are either born confident or you’re not. But this is not the case.

Knowing if someone is thinking about you is important because it is the first step on the road to them falling in love with you.

In order to make someone fall in love with you, you must give them positive motivation to want to be with you. At its simplest level this involves showing them your positive characteristics and traits so that they will be attracted to you.

If you want a soulmate, you must feel an emotional connection to them that’s not based on trying to cover over or satisfy one single problem in your life.

Something as simple as an e-greeting card every now and then can help build the connection between you both in a long distance relationship.

In order to control someone in a relationship, you will inevitably have to criticize them. And nothing kills intimacy in a relationship quicker than criticism.

Often you’ll hear people say that the woman must have done something to cause him to cheat or that she wasn’t satisfying his needs etc etc. And while this is true in some cases, when in comes to serial cheaters – the problem lies squarely with the offender, not the victim.

Some people enter relationships not because they love the other person, but instead do so just to escape from some element of their life that’s bothering them.

Underneath it all, love is actually made up of different components.

If both you and your partner are in love – know that while this is a big plus, it doesn’t automatically guarantee a smooth ride.

Always keep in mind that there was a reason behind the breakup and it doesn’t change when the relationship is one of friendship.