“I Wasn’t Married To A Monster. I Was Married to Someone Who Got Sick.” — Patrick Clancy

"I Wasn’t Married To A Monster. I Was Married to Someone Who Got Sick.” — Patrick Clancy

Patrick Clancy came home on January 24, 2023 to find his three children strangled with exercise bands. His wife, Lindsay, a 32-year-old labor-and-delivery nurse at Massachusetts General Hospital, was on the ground outside the house after cutting her neck and wrists and jumping from an upstairs window. She survived, paralyzed. Cora, 5, and Dawson, 3, were pronounced dead that night. Callan, 8 months, died days later.

He said the line above to The New Yorker’s Eren Orbey for an October 2024 feature, his first substantial interview about the case. Four days after the killings, with Callan still in the hospital, he had already gone public on a GoFundMe page: “I want to ask all of you that you find it deep within yourselves to forgive Lindsay, as I have.”

Lindsay had sought treatment starting around September 2022 and was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder. Reports describe roughly a dozen psychiatric medications over several months, insomnia, intrusive thoughts of harm coming to the children, ER visits, and a five-day stay at McLean Hospital in early January 2023. No provider diagnosed postpartum psychosis at the time.

A printed maternity photo resting on a Hammermill paper box, showing a pregnant woman in white with a man kissing her cheek, posed near a wooden pier on a beach.
Displayed as evidence at Plymouth Superior Court on August 3, 2026, a Duxbury maternity photo of Lindsay Clancy and her husband Patrick appeared during her murder trial. Photo by Greg Derr / Pool via Reuters.

She has admitted the killings and pleaded not guilty, with her defense arguing lack of criminal responsibility due to postpartum psychosis, undiagnosed bipolar disorder, and command hallucinations. The trial began in Plymouth Superior Court around July 20, 2026, where Patrick was the prosecution’s first witness and testified over two days. He now lives in New York and has remarried.

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Patrick Clancy departs Plymouth Superior Court in Massachusetts after taking the stand during his wife’s murder trial on July 27, 2026. Photo by Brian Snyder / Reuters.

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A printed maternity photo resting on a Hammermill paper box, showing a pregnant woman in white with a man kissing her cheek, posed near a wooden pier on a beach.
Displayed as evidence at Plymouth Superior Court on August 3, 2026, a Duxbury maternity photo of Lindsay Clancy and her husband Patrick appeared during her murder trial. Photo by Greg Derr Pool via Reuters.
A man in a dark suit and blue tie walks through a courthouse corridor, looking directly at the camera with a serious expression.
Patrick Clancy departs Plymouth Superior Court in Massachusetts after taking the stand during his wife's murder trial on July 27, 2026. Photo by Brian Snyder Reuters.
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