Holly Riordan
Holly is the author of Severe(d): A Creepy Poetry Collection.
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Powerful Reminders To Read When You’re Sick Of Your Anxiety
Remember, it doesn’t matter whether anyone else understands. There are going to be people in your life with good intentions who say the wrong thing at the wrong time. Maybe they’ll tell you to just breathe as if that will solve all your problems. Or maybe they’ll look at you like you’re overreacting when you…
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The 5 Worst Things To Do When You Love Someone With Anxiety
Everyone with anxiety is different, but if they’re anything like me, here are some things you should never do to your partner: Don’t tell them we need to talk. Don’t be vague. Don’t hint that something is wrong, then wait several hours or days to sit them down for a conversation about it. They’re not…
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Thank You For Being A Kind Person
There are so many assholes wandering around this world that it can be hard to remember there are good people too. People who are trying their hardest to do the right thing. People who put their community before themselves, who act unselfishly when it really counts. Most of the time, the assholes take up too…
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11 Reminders For Humans With Broken Hearts
You didn’t get your heart broken because you were too stupid to see the red flags. You got your heart broken because you were brave enough to put yourself out there, to open yourself up, to take a risk on someone special. You got your heart broken because you were brave enough to care. When…
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Why Your Almost Relationship Never Became Something More
Don’t assume it’s your fault your almost relationship never became something more. You can look back at all the moments when you wish you were more upfront (or more secretive) with your feelings, but it isn’t going to do you any good. You don’t want to kick yourself over the mistakes that you’ve made in…
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5 Gentle Reminders For When You’re Overworked And Overstressed
You can’t do everything at once. Even though it might help to create a list of things you need to accomplish this week, dwelling on all those tasks might feel overwhelming. You need to take your responsibilities one step at a time. After all, you can’t do multiple things at once. Multitasking might make you…
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6 Signs You Are Too Trusting For Your Own Good
Whenever someone hurts you, you forgive them without a second thought. If someone makes the same mistakes over and over again, they are no longer mistakes. They are conscious choices. You don’t want to keep someone in your life who disrespects your boundaries and ignores your needs. If you’ve already explained to someone that their…
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6 Things Most People Won’t Understand About Your Anxiety
Most people don’t understand that you can’t stop your anxiety in its tracks. While breathing exercises and positive thinking can be helpful, those things aren’t going to magically make your anxious thoughts disappear. Other people might encourage you to simply stop worrying. They might assume you have complete control over your thoughts because that’s the…
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Stop Putting Up With These 6 Narcissistic Behaviors
They need constant praise. If you choose anyone over them, even yourself and your own mental health, there’s going to be hell to pay. You’re not allowed to place other friends, family members, or even pets above them. They want to be the most important thing in your world. They want you to drop everything…
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5 Lies You’ve Grown Up Believing Because Of Toxic Humans
It takes effort to love you. Toxic humans will make you feel like you’re unlovable, so they get credit for putting up with you. However, the right person won’t feel like you’re a burden. They won’t treat you like an inconvenience. They will make it clear that you’re special to them. You’re beautiful and sweet…
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It Takes Strength To Have A Soft Heart In This World
It’s hard to stay soft in a world that is filled with so much pain. You should be proud of yourself for having such strong morals, for leading with kindness, for continuing to love with your whole heart. You shouldn’t feel ashamed of how much you care. You should be excited by the fact you…
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Don’t Let Them Guilt Trip You Into Taking Them Back
Walking away from someone toxic is hard enough. However, not enough people talk about how hard it is to stay away. There are going to be days when you question your decision to leave, nights when you feel lonely enough to send them a text or invite them over. But you need to resist the…
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Why You Should Date Someone Who Wears Their Heart On Their Sleeve
Some people play mind games and pretend not to care in order to attract partners – but there are other ways to find love. There are people out there who appreciate honesty and vulnerability. There are people who will be drawn to authenticity, not turned off by it. Here are a few reasons why you…
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Why You Should Never Stop Acting Clingy
You probably aren’t as clingy as you’ve been led to believe. Some people will act like your behavior is unacceptable because your strong feelings are making them uncomfortable. Or more likely, they’re leading you on and don’t want you to realize, so they act like you’re the problem. Remember, texting first and asking to hang…
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4 Reasons You Won’t Reach Your Dreams Unless You Take A Break
Your value doesn’t come from your productivity. You don’t have to earn a break. If you’re tired, you should take a breather because you’re a living creature who deserves to feel rested and relaxed. Don’t punish yourself by pushing yourself too hard because it will backfire. If you want to reach your dreams, you need…
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4 Reminders For Soft Hearts Who Lived Through Toxic Environments
Healing is a journey that lasts a lifetime. Even though you want to wake up in the morning completely healed, that isn’t the way pain works. You are going to have good days and bad days. You are going to feel amazing one week and then come undone the next. This is the natural progress…
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6 Signs You Should Stop Trying To Repair The Relationship
Sometimes, relationships can be repaired with enough tough conversations and compromises. Sometimes, communicating will at least give you some sense of closure. Other times, dealing with this person is not worth the headache they will give you. It will only make your mental health worse. If you can relate to the experiences below, you should give…
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You Can Do Everything Right And Still Get Screwed
It doesn’t matter whether you do the right thing. It doesn’t matter whether you treat everyone around you with love and respect. Your hard work isn’t always going to be appreciated. There are people who will twist your words and intentions, who will come up with reasons to hate you even when you’ve done nothing…