Gara Steinfeld
A seeker serving seekers, human, therapist, writer, warrior
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Gara Steinfeld
Maybe Loving You Isn’t Supposed To Be Easy
Why seek a love that is simple, easy, or perfect
When we can have a love that is so much more?
You Are Allowed To Live Your Life
You are allowed
To love yourself
To put yourself first
Find Yourself With Someone Who Loves All Of You
Find yourself
With someone
Who reminds you
Of your expansive nature
And courage
Anytime
You Cannot Be Fixed, For You Are Not Broken
You cannot be fixed
For you are not broken
Even when you feel fucking crazy
Say Yes To The Adventure Of Being Alive
Say yes
To the adventure
Of being alive
Say yes
To this life
I Want You To Know, You’re An Imperfect Lover
I want to know
If you will be my partner
Not just in love
But in life
Without condition
Just because
And for free
You Don’t Need To Be Perfect To Be Here
You don’t need to have “all your shit together.”
Let Life Show Up For You
I am left speechless
and I don’t know whether to laugh or cry
at the way the world shows up for me
when I show up for the world
A Few Things I Wonder About The Love I Haven’t Met Yet
Do you notice the moon
Even when it feels like the only bright light
And do you know that this isn’t true
That feelings don’t last
That you have the universe inside of you
I Want You To Notice All Of This Life
I want you to notice
All of those times you thought
You’d never get through
But you survived
You Deserve This Kind Of Love
You deserve
Someone
Who chooses you
Every day
Not only as a lover
But as a best friend
Dear Woman—You Are Allowed
Dear woman
You are allowed
To miss him
For as long as your heart
Sees fit
I Refuse To Live This Life Half-Heartedly
For I am not afraid
To fall
To get messy
To make mistakes
10 Things I Will No Longer Give A Damn About And Apologize For
My body: I will take up all the space I damn see fit.