Ellen Nguyen

Honestly, I don’t know if these guys are really weird, creepy, racist people, or they just have no experience talking to women of a different race/ country at all so they end up saying all the wrong, offensive things.

Tinder wouldn’t be Tinder without the racists.

Maybe it’s time I tell you about myself.

1. Improve your relationship with food You know you have an unhealthy relationship with food if you only eat certain food because you think they are good and avoid others because you think they are bad; or you are constantly…

You will see how terribly different it is between what you need and what he could give, between your longing for real intimacy and his casualty and carelessness, between how you want to be treated and how you allow him to treat you.

You over-analyse anything, everything.

You are comfortable calling them (or them calling you) for random reasons or no reason at all.

Coffee becomes your new bestfriend if not bestfriends already.

They’re curious about their surroundings and never stop learning.

Be prepared because I will Freud the fuck out of you.

This is how it goes: You meet each other. You have a good time. Somewhere between the hugs, the kisses, the sex, they tell you that they like things as they are. Casual. That’s the word. You think, oh, that’s cool. You can do casual.

This boy here, or everything I thought was special about him, was simply a fantasy I’d created, a fantasy that was made believable only because I knew nothing about him.